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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc)

@SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
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She/They 🏳️‍⚧️ | Married 👭💍 | Bi-Sapphic | Non-Binary Trans+ Fem / Woman / Fem Entity | Therian | Neurodivergent (AuDHD) | Plural& (Median, Blurian) | Disabled | Spoonie | Emotional Sponge | Mental Health Issues Accumulator | Trans+ GAHT (HRT) Amateur (Homebrew / DIY)

#trans+ #transgender #TransFem #TransWoman #NonBinary #enby #CatGirl #Foxgirl #plural& #spoonie #neurodivergent #AuDHD #disabled #aphantasia #frisson #DIYHRT #DIYGAHT #TransDIY #TransGAHT #TransRightsAreHumanRights #TransKidsDeserveToGrowUp #TransKidsDeserveBetter #TransYouthDeserveToThrive #ProtectTransYouth

Profile picture by NyxisArt shows us as a catgirl. The profile header / banner by Brynn shows a tabby cat lying on a quilt with patches showing our various identities (e.g., trans+, non-binary, autistic, ADHD, bisexual, plural, spoonie, etc.)

756 Followers
424 Following
50 Posts
Joined February 11, 2023
Linktree:
https://linktr.ee/SleepyCatten
Pronouns:
She/They
Headmates:
Hannah (She/IDRGAF; foxgirl); Isabella (She/Fae); Ashley (She/Her); Void (Voi/Void)
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Revospring (Very Seldom Checked):
https://revospring.net/@SleepyCatten
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2w ago
Replying to
@abbiistabbii@blahaj.zone We learnt of this post through the lovely @koalou@lgbtqia.space, who in turn got mentioned by the effervescent @alice@lgbtqia.space 🥰 :NonBinaryButterfly: It wouldn't be possible for us to list all of the awesome folx we've interacted regularly with over the last 3+ years since coming to fedi¹ :FediverseSymbol: ... but here are some of them, in no particular order 🫶 @Bubotomy@mastodon.social@samantha@beige.party@avatastic@avatastic.uk@Akki@toot.lgbt@Asuyuia@toot.cat@pixelate@tweesecake.social@thejessiekirk@ohai.social@AutisticDoctorStruggles@mas.to@mira@outerheaven.club@ciara@anarres.family@i_cannot_today@beige.party@essjayjay@tech.lgbt@steadilyebbing@girlcock.club@tully@cathode.church@Athena@chaosfem.tw@krysemlyn@mastodon.social@LunaDragofelis@void.lgbt@Emanemz@lgbtqia.space@Nikkileah@mendeddrum.org@AprilRye@beige.party@ics@tau-ceti.space@faithisleaping@anarres.family@helle@tacobelllabs.net@Tess@chatty.frogawampus.co.uk@Brynndylow@chatty.frogawampus.co.uk@csgraves@turtleisland.social@Toni2167@transfem.social @purplerabbit@goo.dgirl.gay@liv@social.stim.toys @sparrowsion@meow.social@helenanne@mastodon.scot@aisling@anarres.family@Mux@swingset.social@riley@toot.cat@itzyg@wandering.shop@yourautisticlife@mast.yourautisticlife.com@mewsleah@meow.social@Lucia@eldritch.cafe@Testoceratops@disabled.social@yassie_j@labyrinth.zone@bugbear@indieverse.social@Elodie_lyra@lgbtqia.space@wizardneedsfood@retro.pizza@agowa338@chaos.social@neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.uk@Hyperiontrails@tech.lgbt@EverBeyondReach@kind.social@Bwee@meow.social@Pheebe@tech.lgbt@thatgalsilver@zoner.work@thatfrisiangirlish@blahaj.zone@SamanthaJaneSmith@lgbtqia.space@Willowbriar@chaosfem.tw@raeve@transfem.social@olivvybee@beehive.city@KaraLG84@dragonscave.space@ShadowJonathan@tech.lgbt@puniko@mk.absturztau.be@kirancodes@transfem.social@taedryn@anarres.family@LilahTovMoon@tech.lgbt@Melezioh@mstdn.games@OctaviaConAmore@cutie.city@shivvi@tech.lgbt@fuzzypeach@4bear.com@webhat@infosec.exchange@nickajordan@cyberpunk.lol@davidnjoku@mastodon.world@darkphoenix@not.an.evilcyberhacker.net@matty@blahaj.zone@SymTrkl@anarres.family@Specialist_Being_677@hachyderm.io@TransitBiker@urbanists.social@eri@plush.city (Sorry to all the many, many folx we haven't listed!!!) ¹ Partly because we haven't been as active within the fediverse since 2025, and also as our memory for names is a POS 😅
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
We feel like we must be one of the few trans+ fems on fedi who has played Catan, but doesn't actually like it 😅 Now, if you reskinned it with cats/kittens, perhaps as Settlers of Kit-tans!, we might be interested 🤭 Not a fan of Carcassonne either. Sorry, not sorry there 🫶 Now, Port Royal: that is a game we enjoy and miss playing. Also Splendor, our beloved 🥺
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@h3mmy@lgbtqia.space We like that this was multiple choice 🥰🤭
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@xorlou@lgbtqia.space Folx talk about fight or flight, but freeze and fawn are 2 common ones too¹. Our AuDHD mind² makes it so that we end up rehearsing things in advance, and obsess over them beforehand, but we still get things wrong in the moment when something happens unexpectedly, and it brings a lot of anxiety, so we cannot say that we recommend this 😅 FWLIW, it can get easier over time. Maybe think of them as part of "residual self-image"?³ ¹ We've also seen "faint" or "flop", but they're less common. ² Plus more than a fair bit of trauma and OCD. ³ Residual self-pronouning?
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@alice@lgbtqia.space Oh dear gosh!!! Please tell us that's not USD, but another currency using the dollar sign 🥺
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@h3mmy@lgbtqia.space Also, suggestion for follow-up poll: Ask what flavours of neurospicy folx are :AutismInfinitySymbol: :ADHD_Butterfly:
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@alice@lgbtqia.space That honestly makes no sense to our mind 🙀🙃 Like, we could understand state-of-the-art, custom made shoes, perhaps made with a disability or disabilities in mind, costing that much, but those just look like £10-20 GBP shoes from Primark to us.
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@xorlou@lgbtqia.space Apologies. Honestly, we frequently forget how many folx don't know about it, even on fedi 😅 Would you like some updated stuff on it? No worries if not.
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@xorlou@lgbtqia.space hugs Didn't mean to imply you might be AuDHD, but we can recommend videos on it, in case you're curious 🫶 We're sorry to read that nobody else is taking it seriously 🥺 And we fully understand a transition feeling stalled 😔
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 1mo ago
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re: Self deprecating
@miona@toot.lgbt nods and offers empathetic hugs If it helps, we're aware of some interactions with some conditions¹ and some methods², and would be happy to share resources. If nothing else, we know some that debunk common myths pushed by some of the "specialists"³ who don't keep updated on publications and studies. No obligation: just don't want you to end up like many have done before, where they end up on a low dose of estradiol alongside the worst antiandrogen (spironolactone) or the second-worst (cyproterone acetate) 🥺🩷 ¹ connective tissue and immune system disorders ² pills, transdermal (gel, patches, spray), injections, implant ³ medical gatekeepers
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 1mo ago
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re: Self deprecating
@miona@toot.lgbt offers empathetic hugs if wanted We understand firsthand how much waiting to start sucks, and how badly dysphoria stings 🥺 We wish we could say it all goes away with access to GAHT, and maybe it does for some, but we're approaching our 5th anniversary on feminising GAHT and still experience a lot of it. However, it's still SO much better than not being on it, and we wish we'd known about how safe, affordable, and amazing homebrew (DIY) estradiol injections were when our egg cracked, as we'd have started about 6+ months sooner than we did. And we wish that person had also known enough to dismiss any notions that prescription stuff was "better" (it's not) or safer (nope), or that doctors "know best" (really, really nope) 😔 If you need any such info there, our DMs remain open until our instance goes down forever in about 3 months. FWLIW, we thought you already were on feminising GAHT. We know that won't help how you see yourself, but we wanted to advise nonetheless.
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
Replying to
@steadilyebbing@girlcock.club Oh gosh, yes: the explanations!!! If somebody has to explain the rules to us, and they do so quickly, without time for questions, and it takes ages to explain the rules, we're already gonna struggle to learn 😅 Unless somebody's gonna walk us through it in-game, and be really patient when we have no idea what's going on, we're screwed 🤦‍♀️ The greatest irony: wife has SO many top-tier board games 🥺😔
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@xorlou@lgbtqia.space We remember drives like that being heavily pushed in computer magazines in the mid to late 90s, and even early 00s, especially before ADSL started to slowly replace dial-up for more folx. It was a surreal time. Tech was changing fast, and yet a lot of it still felt slow for a while. Part of that was us being younger (and our sense of time being different), but it also feels like a lot of tech has got fast enough for most folx now... ... which is great, as most won't be able to afford any upgrades for a good while 😅🙃
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
Replying to
@eliza@chaosfem.tw Yays! It's not just us 🥰🩷
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
Replying to
@steadilyebbing@girlcock.club Ah, so you've played Tzolkin: The Mayan Calendar before then? 🤭
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
Replying to
@bea_lor@eldritch.cafe We managed the de-ageing effect, although the last 14-15 months has undone a lot of that 😅 We never really had the cutie part down though, but cannot win them all. It's nice enough to know some folx who are both lovely and cuties :SmilingCatFaceWith3Hearts:
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 1mo ago
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@alice@lgbtqia.space Do you have any equipment with you perhaps? (justification) For all you know, somebody has had an accident on the other side of the door, and you need to make sure that they're okay. We know that legality varies a lot based on where you are in the world, but if you check it out first, you can probably justify any actions to protect yourself/ves.
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
One of these days, our poor phonological processing¹ will likely lead to us misparsing non-binary as non-binaural. That'll be kinda interesting though 🤭 :NonBinaryHeart: 🎧🎶 ¹ Under the broad auditory processing umbrella.
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@thejessiekirk@ohai.social We tried Monopoly a handful of times over the decades, but we've always had a bad time with it 😔 We later found out the origins of the game ("The Landlord's Game"), and it made us actively not want to try Monopoly again. Sorry 😣 We enjoy some board games, but if they're complex, we struggle to learn, as our focus and ability to concentrate on one thing (unless hyperfocussing and/or hyperfixating) have been diminished greatly... as have our social battery and tolerance over overstimulation 😮‍💨🤦‍♀️
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
Admin also implies admin/max. Sent toot.
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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TADC (no spoilers)
@Willowbriar@chaosfem.tw Wishing that you enjoy the end of it 🫶 Won't say any more.
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@Asuyuia@toot.cat :GirlInTransHoodieHuggingFurry:
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@Willowbriar@chaosfem.tw Lewd jokes, depression (or broader mental health struggles), and the desire to be kind to others could honestly be a good replacement for the "holy Trinity".
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@alice@lgbtqia.space What's extra weird to us is how a fediverse user would write a blog post, rather than spin up their own instance and increase the post limit 🤭 But seriously, we know that some folx do do blog posts, but it's more common to at least see them post it on the fediverse, even if their blog doesn't backlink to their fedi or socials, and/or (for many of us) ways to help us out financially if somebody found it useful and has disposable funds.
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 1mo ago
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@thejessiekirk@ohai.social "Soon I shall conquer the planet with my army of the day of a week before I can see the things you do to make sure I don't get us out of the house." 😅
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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Looks like we created another post thread about age a bit later. https://cultofshiv.wtf/@SleepyCatten/114780505873393600
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@LunaDragofelis@void.lgbt 🤭🩷
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@Bubotomy@mastodon.social Who decides the should? 🩷
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@ellesaurus@toot.lgbt Quantum sexuality
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@Bwee@meow.social offers hugs
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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re: #TMI (includes skin-hearts)
@alice@lgbtqia.space Is it really TMI if folx were a-skin for it? 🤭
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 1mo ago
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@Bubotomy@mastodon.social offers many hugs
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@Willowbriar@chaosfem.tw Ultimately it's about what/how you feel about yourself, but nothing about you is awful :TransHeart:
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@jenf@tech.lgbt Within just the game, or in general? 🥺🩷 @steadilyebbing@girlcock.club
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@Willowbriar@chaosfem.tw reads post thinks to selves: "Not sure what fae is talking about, but good for em." 🤭🩷
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@Nikkileah@mendeddrum.org It's nice to see you getting enjoyment from such things 🥰
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@ellesaurus@toot.lgbt In that case, we'll need to arrange an encounter. pulls out a DM screen Roll for initiative :D20_Queer: queer flag
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2w ago
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@agowa338@chaos.social @ordnung@chaos.social Sorry for any issues caused there Frank 😅🥺🩷 Can you not mute the conversation thread? 🩷 i.e., Fedi Tips - Muting conversation threads in Mastodon On Mastodon, if you have posted in a thread or been tagged in it, but you don't want to take part any more, you can mute the conversation so that you won't get notifications from it...
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@Bubotomy@mastodon.social If there were a reason why, would it help you? We ask not to judge in any way, but to ask you to ask yourself whether the "why" is required, and whether it matters. You are here, for now at least. For whatever reasons that you exist, you do. At some point, you won't. So: what would you like to do during your short period of time existing? There are no right or wrong answers, and you don't need to reply even, though you can of course if you wish.
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@freya@social.highenergymagic.net We experience similar issues with initialisms, especially as we've learnt more of them over time. VFS springs to mind for both tech and trans+ topics.
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
Trying to discover if something already exists, but cannot find the correct search terms. We are seeking an adapter that will allow a europlug (used on many UK bathroom products) to be charged via USB (ideally USB C). We don't have the spoons to draw an image, but we're basically look for: Europlug (outie) to adapter (innie) on one side and USB C (outie) to adapter (innie) on the other. (We're using outie and innie, as we loathe the official terms.)
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2w ago
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@bea_lor@eldritch.cafe Does this help at all? 🩷 https://joinsharkey.org/instances/
Find an instance
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@thejessiekirk@ohai.social Loopin' Louie? 🩷
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
Replying to
Hair removal
@freya@social.highenergymagic.net Ah. Yes. The other type of IPL. Our advice to folx remains to avoid IPL entirely for hair removal and either go straight to laser (if suitable) or electrolysis (thermolysis, galvanic, or blend).
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 1mo ago
If we search fedi for modmin, we find at least a few posts. This is acceptable :SmugRelievedFace: If we search for modminmaxing, we seem to find none :BlobCatSurprise: The pun is right there, folx 🤭 :FediverseSymbol:#ModMinMaxing #ModMin
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@Nikkileah@mendeddrum.org Links so we can upvote for you? 🩷
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@sleepybisexual@mk.absturztau.be If we're talking capsaicin, then the research is mixed. Some suggests it can cause teeth pain, and others suggest it's good for oral health. https://noai.duckduckgo.com/?q=capsaicin%20effect%20on%20teeth
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@Nikkileah@mendeddrum.org Misread that at first 🤭
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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf
· 2mo ago
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@alexisbushnell@toot.wales offers hugs
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