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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag:

@h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
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I like to create. Poetry, art, food, music, experiences, etc. I like seeing people engaged and impassioned. I like people being their authentic selves and the diversity of expression is part of the ichorite of this world.

This account occasionally posts NSFW content. Boosts appreciated on public posts. For more SFW ramblings, you can easily find my more techie alt.

I will approve most follow requests if queer-friendly. I can't vet blank profiles so those will be ignored.

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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 3w ago
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I've not been the best about posting this year. But something that has been doing great is the coloring process for my sleeve! The last coloring session we did the reds, oranges and blue+very subtle seafoam green. The different greens on the leaves of different parts of my arm were done a while ago. Fun fact: The Amanita Muscaria is a sort of "forbidden fruit" due to it being both poisonous and psychoactive (in more of a deleriant way, not necessarily a psychedelic way). Instead of eating it, I would recommend checking out some of the folklore around it 😊 #TattooTour #NonBinary #KatsTats #KatPics #JellyShroom #ThoughtBubbles
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 4w ago
I hear bamboo is a good choice for when you want things to spread effectively. In this case, various experiments with bamboo are underway to calculate various related coefficients, etc. #KatPics #Bamboo #Rope #Spreading
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 2mo ago
There are always so many beautiful elements of nature one gets to experience when camping in northern Michigan. Here is a Small-Eyed Sphinx chilling out at #Blissfest2026 It was pretty warm and humid, so this one got the perfect opportunity to cool off with @AstralFox@lgbtqia.space#KatPics #Blissfest #Moth #Michigan
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 2mo ago
Sometimes you just capture a special moment. For some, it's perfect, for others, it's maybe a moment too soon. #KatPics #DogsOfMastodon #NotSafeFromWhimsy #KatsPets #Dog
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 2mo ago
After getting home from #Blissfest this year, my hair was ridiculous. Here's the full #FitCheck for the "teardown camp and haul things back home" day. It involves extra manual labor in the sweltering humid heat and also wading through grass sometimes (yes, I tuck my pants into my socks for that). I wore something similar on the "loading into camp" day, and while I was there, I only wore pants twice. It was when volunteering to do arts and crafts in the kids area. There is often paint and glue, and stuff like that involved. I'll post some of the fits at some point once I figure out if I actually took pictures of them, and whether I like them or not. #Blissfest2026 #KatPics #TomboyThursday #NonBinaryFashion
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 1mo ago

Hearts are easier to break when my nails are sharp.

#NoContext #MusingsOfAKat

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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 2mo ago
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While I definitely used different ties for load bearing wraps, I did sprinkle various decorative knots around camp. Especially with glow-in-the-dark paracord, as this has been pretty good at helping folks avoid running face first into trees when it's dark. Definitely not my tidiest work, but for a hasty one I think it was acceptable. I did do a properly tidy hashira anchor at some point but I think I forgot to actually take a picture of it :neofox_facepalm: And my various ties around camp _did_ get noticed. Yes, I have anecdotes in the queue somewhere. #Blissfest #KatPics #RopeArt #Blissfest2026
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 4mo ago
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The Moon might be waning, but #Pride is waxing. Unlike the moon, I don't believe there is a "pride peak" so to speak. So we are probably in a state of unbounded #WaxingPride This is good because there's no way I'm getting through all the pride flags in one month! :neofox_laugh_sweat: I will try to juxtapose some meaning on the backs of those supporting the rainbow, and would love to hear your thoughts in the comments :blobcatflower:#KatPics #WaxArt #NonBinary #LGBTQIA #DrippingWithColor #Rope
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 2mo ago
Pretty close to the "entrance" to our camp at #Blissfest2026, there was a tree stump that we decorated as a temporary surface. And took care to protect the moss from stray footsteps. The moss was not alone though. This fungus is colloquially known as "Dead Man's Fingers" and the scientific name is _Xylaria polymorpha_. It's a saprotrophic fungus that often grows on dead or dying wood. They are not edible, so I recommend you do _not_ put these digits in your mouth if you feel the urge. Some species are associated with black root rot in certain trees (like apple, pear, elm, etc), but mostly they are essential decomposers. #Blissfest #KatPics #Fungi #BeautifulDecay #Moss #Nature
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 2mo ago
One fun recurring thing at #Blissfest is the "Mug Library." These folks are not officially affiliated with the festival or anything. They setup a wall of mugs hanging from nets. You can grab one, fill up with free coffee that runs on donations, and simply return the mug (into a tote, not the net) when you're done. At night time, the netting gets lit up all pretty, and you know what happens then. That's right, lights in the woods at night attract moths! Here's a picture of @SillyLily@lgbtqia.space and @xYourEmoGFx@lgbtqia.space coming across a moth that has been caught in the net of lights. In case you are wondering, there were indeed many instances of folks going "Follow the unicorn!" or "Everyone! Follow that rainbow penis! It's the only way we'll make it back to camp!" and variants thereof. I can neither confirm nor deny whether they made it to the destination they wanted or through a portal to the feywilds. #Blissfest2026 #KatPics #Unicorn #TalesOfAKat
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 3mo ago
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I don't have as many fun plants around as some of y'all do, but I still am easily smitten by simple things. For example, there are plenty of wild alliums around, and I quite enjoy seeing the silver lil bubbles they form, and appreciate how they look so alien and metallic. Then when they finally burst, it's like there was this tiny cute eldritch deity just waiting to hatch. 🥹 #KatPics #BloomScrolling #Plants #Nature
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 2mo ago
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The moon is full. It's a special time, ripe with magic. Use it wisely. The next #NewMoon will co-incide with the peak of the 2026 meteor shower. Weather permitting, this will make for excellent conditions to watch the night sky. And also to harness the increased magic density in the soil in between realms if you are so inclined. #FullMoon #Moon #Perseids #Perseids2026 #ScribblesOfAKat
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 3mo ago

Alright y'all. I appreciate you being cool about me taking weird sized breaks from posting. Here's a recipe I made yesterday and basically devoured because it was so good.

#CW for pics of #Food

Butter Rice Cakes

Makes 12 using a standard muffin tray

Ingredients
  • 10 tablespoons unsalted butter (140g)
  • ½ cup granulated sugar (105g). I personally prefer closer to ⅓ cup (~65-70g)
  • 2 teaspoons vanilla extract
  • 1 teaspoon honey
  • ¼ teaspoon fine sea salt
  • 1 large egg (preferably at room temperature)
  • 1 cup whole milk (~224 g)
  • 2 ¼ cups mochiko (sweet rice flour) or glutinous rice flour (270g)

Notes:

  • The butter will be going in two places. 84g (6 Tbsp) will be going into a mixing bowl for making the batter, the rest will be used to coat the muffin tray. If you have a scale it's no problem splitting it after melting, but I know some of y'all might prefer to do it differently.
  • If you plan on using a mixer like a kitchen aid, the large bowl in step 2 is the bowl that will be used for mixing.
  • Beating is not the same as whisking.
  • Using an uncoated standard muffin tin will help ensure the most even browning (in theory)
Preparation Step 1

Heat oven to 400 degrees. Rack will go in the middle (if applicable)

Step 2
  • Heat the butter in a small saucepan over medium until just melted, stirring occasionally. 3 to 4 minutes or mabe longer depending on your stovetop.
  • Pour 6 tablespoons (84 grams) of the melted butter into a large bowl and add the sugar, vanilla, honey and salt.
  • Whisk until well blended, then set aside to cool. If using a kitchen aid, feel free to let cool while whisking. It just needs to be cool enough to not cook the egg.
Step 3
  • Meanwhile, brush the remaining 4 tablespoons (56 grams) melted butter into the cups of a standard muffin tin to generously and evenly coat.

Yes, some will pool at the bottom. It should be even across the different muffins, it's not expected to be even distribution in a single tin, but do make sure to brush the sides well.

Step 4
  • Whisk the egg into the sugar mixture until just blended, then whisk in the milk.
  • While whisking, gradually add the rice flour and whisk until smooth.
  • Divide the batter evenly among the buttered muffin cups (about ¼ cup/60 grams per cup if you used the full amount of sugar) and smooth the tops, if necessary.
  • Set the muffin tin on a sheet pan. This is to catch the overflow. It will likely happen.
Step 5
  • Bake on the middle rack for 7-10 minutes, then lower the temperature to 375 degrees and bake until dark golden brown, 28 to 40 minutes more.

Ovens can vary dramatically sometimes, so do check on it earlier in the second phase to avoid overbaking. We are basically frying the batter to get the outside nice and crisp.

Step 6
  • Let cool in the pan for a few minutes, then lift each cake out with a small offset spatula or very thin paring knife and transfer to a rack to cool slightly.
  • Serve warm. Because their crust softens overnight, these cakes are best eaten the day they are made.

Credit for base recipe goes to Kayla Hoang and Genevieve Ko.

#KatInTheKitchen #Recipe #KatPics #GlutenFree #Baking

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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 3mo ago
This lil fella found its way into my collection. Folks of Fedi, I would love your suggestions for a name. What should I call this new friend? #CW Picture of a rainbow penis plushie and some framed art with rope #KatPics #AskFedi #NotSafeFromWhimsy
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 2mo ago
At #Blissfest this year, both my volunteer shifts went to the Kids area. We set up various arts and crafts for them to do. It lets them exercise some creativity, and sometimes we can sneak in useful skill learning. It's very freeform though. One of the activities ended up being a variant of "worry dolls" (Muñecas quitapenas). This is a doll that one can whisper their worries to and the doll will let them be free of the worries overnight. Practically, it is basically a confidant, and some of these kiddos had strong opinions on what makes such an entity trustworthy. Kids at this festival are feral to an extent (absolutely delightful). Here's one of many examples of their interesting creations. #GooglyEyes #Crafting #Blissfest2026 #KatPics
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 4mo ago
Springtime in May means a lot of things are in bloom. This also holds true for toebeans of various kinds. Some of the eager ones can be harvested for a first flush. If your toes have been getting fatigued waiting for me to have enough spoons for my notorious backlog, here's sn opportunity to have a reprieve. Give your toes little recharge hammocks to make it easier. Here is drone 9382 demonstrating a sensory recharge for toes in a bind. #CW for #Rope #Toes and #Latex #RopeBondage #KatPics #RopeArt #ToeSocks
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 2mo ago
#Blissfest was a fun experience this weekend. I still have pics I haven't posted from #Blissfest2025 but I'm going to try and at least get some posted soon for #Blissfest2026 It was humid as heck. And it was quite warm; both in terms of how welcoming and accepting the people are, and also the air temperature. There were multiple times where I was just glistening with sweat and doing something with ropecord, trees, or dancing. I'll spare you any pictures of that state, and instead offer this picture of my hair after I got home (only a day since the last wash at the campground). I'm looking forward to journaling the various experiences which will likely end up making it into some posts. I have some simple stories such as one to convey the joy of stargazing on a clear night with a new moon, and ensnaring passers-by into catching some surprise meteors. And more involved ones such as the complexity of dealing with an individual that got argumentative after asking whether it was okay to use "dude" in a camp full of trans folks. #KatPics #CurlyHair #Frizz #TalesOfAKat
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 4mo ago
Technically censored nipples, riding crop (part 2)

Continued from @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space

Sometimes when you have the right consistency and wetness with clay, you can smack it to draw the moisture up closer to the surface. You need to use the correct rhythm though, which can be tricky to figure out. As a bonus, it may also warm up the clay and accelerate the process.

When successful, it will allow the moisture to escape (via evaporation) and the clay will crumble more easily.

In this example, the redness is a positive indicator for moisture and warmth. It appears to correlate with how jiggly the googly eyes are as well.

Featuring @lillieeatssouls@mastodon.social (Part 2 of 4)

Link to @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space

#RopeBondage #BooblyEyes #GooglyEyes #KatClips #KatVids #RidingCrop #EyesGoneGoogly

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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago

#CW for technically partial nudity and my spider tattoo is visible (it's just a lil one)

A few moons ago, I had made a post with these skull prints: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space

Here's a followup I said I would post when I got some pictures of them aglow. These are from a few days ago, it was sunny out so when I got up and my hallway was flooded in sunlight, they charged up fast.

While I still want to get shots in a darker setting, these will probably help tide y'all over until then. My alt text isn't as poetic in this post as I usually strive for, but I know you'll like me even if I'm not at my best. :Blobhaj_Hug_Blahaj:

#NomBinary #KatPics #GlowInTheDark #AltAfterDark #FullMoon #Tattooed #KatsTats

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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 2mo ago
Did something weird happen for lgbtqia.space settings? I am seeing a 500 char char limit instead of the extra long one I've been spoiled with this whole time.
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 4mo ago
#CaptionContest Caption this photo in whatever way you find most amusing. If you are having trouble here's an example template: "My face when ___" #KatPics #RopeArt #BooblyEyes #EyesGoneGoogly #KatQs #RopeBondage #CW for visible nipples I still haven't decided on my draft for part 4 of the clay soil moon magic with @lillieeatssouls@mastodon.social but since y'all are so patient with me, I decided you can have some bonus content.
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 2mo ago
Replying to
Bonus Question: Biteable Areas

Some questions I'd love to get y'all's answers to for those interested.

In all cases, assume there is full consent of all involved parties.

  • When biting others, what are your favorite places to bite or nibble?
  • When being bitten, what are your favorite places to be bit or nibbled?
  • When observing biting happen, what types of biting or nibbling do you like watching?

If some of these are context dependant, feel free to expand on it.

#biting #AskFedi #Poll #KatQs #PollsOfAKat

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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 3mo ago
The moon is just so... resplendent; The divinity re-packed so densely, giving her that signature effulgence. The lambent magic shall not be restrained. Ishtar, Artemis, Selene, Luna, Hecate, All had the opportunity to stop it. The moon is full! #FullMoon
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
Replying to
@aizuchi I don't really "date" anyone, but I do kink scenes, and vet folks in that context a lot. As I understand it "dating" doesn't have the structure around discussing boundaries and expectations clearly which probably isn't helpful. Ok, let's say I'm at an event, and I'm available for pickup play. Some guy approaches. First pass check is the gut check. Anything about the vibe that is off? Is something in my body ringing alarm bells, raising flags or sending smoke signals? If not, proceed. Chat, gauge body language, word choices, tone, etc. look around to see if there are any peers that can signal more information. Like maybe who they came with or how they're connected to the event, etc. Since I'm usually at vetted events I know there is already a layer of screening that has occurred. If they seem safe so far, and they've expressed interest in being tied up, I proceed with my speed negotiation. Obviously, the structured environment makes it very easy to feel out different things and shift gears quickly. I also hear a _lot_ of gossip about different men in the scene because it's part of normal chatter amongst the femmes and pretty useful information about which ones have which faults and which ones to seek out for different reasons. Idk what to call this safety factor. Peer review? The buzz? The better tea party? It might help to know how you meet men for dating purposes, because advice on how to vet them will vary on that information I think.
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
Replying to
@raphaelmorgan Let's not forget that they don't even know what they like much of the time! And it was hit or miss on whether it was easy to get more information or not. @kabel42 @alice
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 3mo ago
Replying to
@eruonna@lgbtqia.space I think it is highly dependent on the curators. I've definitely read some stuff that just derailed partway. However, I do tend to read more for the storyline or the prose. @alice@lgbtqia.space there is a lot of non-problematic video content too! When I'm reviewing media, it's usually with a notepad and writing implement for taking notes though. One day I might get around to publishing some of the reviews or notes about set and costume design, or scene planning and execution, etc. However, I'm basically never using any sort of aggregator site so that might be part of it.
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 4mo ago
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@JoscelynTransient@chaosfem.tw Metal from Heaven is one of my faves. Not quite Kill Bill but more like Princess Bride in an anarcho punk industrial world. @cathos@merveilles.town
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
Replying to
@alice Depending on how much you want to stress test it, you may or may not need heavier duty carabiners. Or at least locking ones.
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 3mo ago
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@alice@lgbtqia.space 💯 Yes 😊 @eruonna@lgbtqia.space
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 4mo ago
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@DrJLecter@beige.party Iron Widow is in my queue. Unfortunately my reading queue has been frozen for over a month due to work, but I've heard it's worth a read! @JoscelynTransient@chaosfem.tw
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
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@3TomatoesShort@disabled.social The "dehydrating" effect that some consumables have is what I would call "astringency" and can happen regardless of the sour or bitter profile of the taste. Personally, I feel that is more of the texture of the flavor than the taste of the flavor of that makes sense? And it is also technically unrelated to the sour-associated facial expressions like puckering. :neofox_science: That tends to be a sour specific reaction. There's a different face folks pull with bitters, and it's really quite interesting where the differences come in because it varies across cultural groups. @SeaFury@aus.social Some people seem to have difficulty picking out sour vs bitter, and there are several hypotheses as to why. Personally, I feel that it's a mix of exposure to different tastes and the language to communicate the tastes. Not much different than color and "seeing" the color differences more as we develop more precise terminology around the different hues, tones, etc.
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 4mo ago
Replying to
@JoscelynTransient@chaosfem.tw Oh! And the Masquerade Series is also technically a vengeance quest! With multiple vengeance quests intersecting interesting ways. You'd start with The Traitor Baru Cormorant @cathos@merveilles.town
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
Replying to
@LJ Oh that is a good reminder that I need to call my doc 😅 @valentine
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
Replying to

@inherentlee I set boundaries causally all the time, but I feel like when someone has good respect for boundaries, they will do consent checks. Consent checks are a green flag, and they are so easy.

Some examples for the audience.

"May I touch?" While indicating something like my tattoos (surprisingly more common than my hair nowadays)

"May I hug you?" "Is it okay if I share your name with friend of mine? They have a similar last name" "Can I talk about your tattoos with a friend? They're pretty witchy and may end up wanting to meet you"

Similarly, here are some consent red flags I am quoting from a book I find I keep sharing with people (The Ace and Aro Relationship Guide)

Words: “I don’t have to ask permission.” “I just assumed it was okay.” “But we did this last week/the other night, so I just assumed it’s fine this time.” “I know you said you didn’t want to, but you don’t really mean that.” “I know what you want better than you do sometimes.” “You’re just scared/nervous/unsure. You really want to do this.” Actions: Continuing to do something after you’ve said no. Persisting in asking after you’ve said no. Exerting pressure on you to change your mind. Exhibiting anger, sadness, or frustration when you do not give consent. Ignoring verbal or nonverbal cues that indicate you are not giving your consent.

@aizuchi

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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
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@JoscelynTransient What if I _am_ the horror?
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
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@alice :blobcatflower: Is the wood strong enough for adding wrist cuff loops in the middle?
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
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@JoscelynTransient Awww :neofox_aww: This is how I know I'm in the right crowd :ablobcatheart:
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 4mo ago
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@CatoTheYoungest@corteximplant.com Oh, latex is quite smooth! And it interacts with textures in an interesting way. It's also often layered with shiner, which is basically 100% silicone and keeps it shiny and maneuverable. The pictured drone couldn't stop wiggling its toes for the sensory feedback loop of rope mixed with latex. It's certainly not for everyone, and quality varies significantly. I don't have any latex myself (my dogs make for too much overhead) but routinely play with folks that really like latex.
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 4mo ago
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@3TomatoesShort@disabled.social Oh! :bunhdlurkaww: I would love to hear about an update if you end up deciding to try this out. Could be quite interesting. @SeaFury@aus.social
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
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@3TomatoesShort@disabled.social I'm not sure curry is a great example 😅 as the flavor is rather complex. It's often used incorrectly in my experience, but I was also exposed to a lot of different flavors growing up so I might be a bit biased there. When I'm cooking for folks that have a more "western" palate, I tend to swap out curry leaves for something else that will still produce a curried food, but is using cumin, coriander and/or turmeric, etc instead of curry leaves. Some common veggies like arugula, kale, radacchio are slightly bitter. Walnuts, dark chocolate, and almonds have some amount of bitter. I know bitter oranges and grapefruit will have both sour and bitter elements that can lead to confusion and they may not be the best example either. I imagine hops and bitter teas are part of British cuisine somewhere, right? Think of an oversteeped malty black tea with high astringency. Those have extra tannins which are bitter. Often these will be offset with milk or cream. @SeaFury@aus.social
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space :neofox_floof_happy: Crab spiders will often hang out on flowers blending in, and waiting for the prey to come to them. Some flowers will actually secrete a compound that attracts these spiders when they are being overloaded by consumers :blobcatflower:
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
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@avatastic@avatastic.uk uwu :blobcatuwu:#MayThe4th
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
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@wilco@social.lol This sounds like an opening line to a story narrated by a pirate. :neofox_heart: :neofox_think_owo:
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
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@brnrd@bsd.network And just to add on, you don't need to have the ring to have Lyme. Many people who get Lyme from a tick bite never get one. So, while the ring is a clear indicator, the absence of one does not mean it's clear. @That_One_Guy@mastodon.world
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
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@bluewitchgwen Agreed. My local scene has folks making adjustable steel tension rods with 4-6 attachment points (some are used for suspension reasons). And I've seen them offered at 70-140 depending on size and customizations. Nice padded leather cuffs would cost more though. Some people use rope instead :neofox_cool: @alice
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 3mo ago
Did you know? The medication that is supposed to help with #ADHD is much more effective when you remember to actually take it. #80HD #KatLessons
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 5mo ago
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@Longspeak@chirp.enworld.org :neofox_floof_happy:
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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 3mo ago
Boosted by @GroupNebula563@mastodon.social

When you are having one of those days, and are still blissfully unaware that you forgot to take your meds, and it's past time for tea...

  1. Water in the kettle is ready. Yes, you had to actually turn the thing on for it to heat up.
  2. Put mesh steeper/strainer in teapot, after finding where you left it since the last time it was cleaned out (1-2h ago)
  3. Add dry tea leaves to mug.
  4. Add water to teapot.
  5. Retreat back to workstation with tea mug.
  6. Wait a tick... loading icon
  7. Evaluate the mistake here...
  8. Return to the teapot and actually add the dry leaves there instead of the mug. 9... Normal tea autopilot (just don't put the teamug in the cupboard afterwards. It goes with you back to where you were going)

#TalesOfAKat #80HD

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BewilderedKat :nonbinary_flag: @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space
· 2mo ago
Another small anecdote from #Blissfest2026 and volunteering with kiddos. One of the popular crafting activities was "flower crowns." I believe there was a workshop earlier on day 1 with the older kids, so it was a theme. During Day 2, we narrowly avoided the pipe-cleaner-apocalypse. This is where we would be running out of pipe cleaners because they were being used by kids to make the base of the crown. I had managed to find some crafting wire that was an adequate substitute. Both thin and thick ones. The thin ones I braided to make it usable as a base, but this took a while. The kids who got those special pieces absolutely loved them though. The thicker wire needed pliers to clip and join, but a single strand was sufficient. We did some pre-making of different sizes so kids could basically grab one that fit and start adding things to decorate. I noticed one kiddo that was trying on different sizes, but this one had type 4 hair and was kinda disappointed with a solid ring that wouldn't sit right on springy curls. At least, not without crushing the curls. Kinda like when a hairband or hat ruins your hair. Fellow curlies know what I'm talking about. Especially if you have a tendency to fro. I gently popped in to compliment the hair, and note how it's even curlier than mine, and what I would do to make a crown sit better without ruining the hair. Then I got to show them how to use zig-zagging and coiled versions of the metal band that would move with the curls instead of against them. And how the added flexibility is nice for fine tuning. It was clear she hadn't had a metal one that just simply worked before. The delight that beamed from this kiddo brought me a lot of joy. 🥹 That is the story. #DiversityIsImportant #Blissfest #TalesOfAKat #CurlyHair
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