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@sashag@anarres.family @h5e@tech.lgbt for myself, I cannot imagine drinking tea from a mug that doesn't have spoon in it
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@mi@awawa.cat @sashag@anarres.family @h5e@tech.lgbt oh this reminds me of how many people often place spoon on the table the wrong way (that maximizes the contact surface), but whenever I mention this they look at me as if I was the weird one.
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re: Berlin CSD news (death indirectly referenced), nazis, slurs
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@MaryAustinBooks@mstdn.social @futurebird@sauropods.win idk about "everybody agrees" because I think that in WoT especially the men are just insufferable, while I really liked the female characters most of the time (when they weren't busy doing their fair share of nonsense too).
Getting threatened by prison under § 186 StGB/§ 187 StGB in response to me saying that AfD are fash is not what I had on my bingo card for that chat for Russian speaking centrists in Germany 🤡
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In general everything else than gel is denied in Germany.
But spray (Lenzetto) is not denied too?
Oh that's a good one: "We Must Create
the Shit Machine"
https://www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/we-must-create-the-shit-machine
(Kudos to that nice girl from uni)
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@hsza@social.tudbut.de @LunaDragofelis@void.lgbt they cannot be fascists because their leader is a woman who lives with a woman!
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@LunaDragofelis@void.lgbt defamation of a person and defamation of a politician
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@sashag@anarres.family I usually call them straight gays
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@manunzip@desperatesluts.online @adatje@kinkycats.org like, that's the entire reason why boobs were invented
"Oh neat, new generation of Thinkpad P14s AMD is out, I wonder what would the equivalent of my current configuration (bought for 1800 EUR back when that generation was new) cost"
5.089,01 € Inkl. MwSt. :blobcattableflip:
(Base minimal configuration is over 2k EUR, they used to start much cheaper; 64GB RAM increase it by 1550; 2TB SSD increases it by 1320.)
(Meanwhile equivalent topseller configuration of previous generation with the same 64GB/2TB, is currently still available in 4 stores, starting at 2270 EUR, up from the lowest level of 2040 in February, and up from the introduction level of 2200 a year ago). So it's basically just 3k EUR extra for the privilege of having Ryzen "AI" 450 instead of Ryzen "AI" 350.)
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@DarcMoughty@infosec.exchange @mcc@mastodon.social yes, CDDB data was track listing + album cover + other album info identifiable by album checksum derived from track lengths and numbers. Useful to audio CD playback software, for displaying album art and track names (this was the only reason for CDDB to exist, because audio CDs, roughly speaking, do not have any metadata besides track lengths); but absolutely useless for identifying songs by fragments.
Considering that society mostly moved away from audio CDs and that all the other digital music formats (including those stored on CDs) typically also store metadata, I don't think CDDB is very relevant now.
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@DarcMoughty@infosec.exchange @mcc@mastodon.social but CDDB worked on entirely different principle? Not sure how CDDB would help with identifying a song by its fragment.
"There is no antimemetics division" is clearly a book of fiction, because hypercompetent people are never in charge IRL.
Maybe that's why it is so popular.
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@podryban@wspanialy.eu @agturcz@circumstances.run also, "His Dark Materials"!
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About altersex genitals in art and discussion of terminology
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@lynnesbian@fedi.lynnesbian.space @shrew@oomfie.city performance performance computing, for when you want twice the performance per computing
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red button blue button if it was a marshmallow test
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@maartje@blahaj.social
Emails about my train:
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Your ticket (twice?)
Essential information about your train!!
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Our terms of service have changed
Your data has been breached and leaked
Thalys is now Eurostar
Eurostar is missing you
Eurostar is shutting down
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@aud@fire.asta.lgbt @futurebird@sauropods.win but I want to see the cute foxes 😭
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@ics@tau-ceti.space I just noticed that the last part of your previous post is _almost_ in alphabetic order 😅
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✅️ Ant-Man ✅️ Avengers - Age of Ultron ✅️ Black Panther ✅️ Black Widow ✅️ Captain America - Civil War 🔲 Doctor Strange
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@ptrc@social.treehouse.systems @mcc@mastodon.social @heathen_cat@furs.social ah lol, I didn't notice the link to the main page from the disambiguation page, so was trying to find this "see also" from the movie page and all the other specific pages linked to from disambiguation page.
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@boghan@chaos.social @ww@xyzzy.link and also her DNA matches cat's
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@domi@donotsta.re @foone@digipres.club @littlefox@gotosocial-dev.svc.0x0a.network "I was using windows 95 when I was 12" puts you even earlier than 1992!
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@s0@cathode.church I vote for putting a horse in the pool
Once again people are discussing Forced Felinization Surgery on my timeline
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@buncube@transfem.social @Mimesatwork@wandering.shop @butchrobot@shork.nerdmusic.net that's the correct reading.
(Not necessarily in the libraries because that would disturb silence. But, like, there should be places for that.)
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@siina@social.criminallycute.fi isn't this called perineum
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@buncube@transfem.social @Mimesatwork@wandering.shop @butchrobot@shork.nerdmusic.net my (probably considered to be problematic; and I really hope that fragments of this post won't get quoted out of context; I didn't put hours of thought into each sentence here, so some of them might be badly worded and I guess misinterpreted in bad faith) opinion about CSA is that CSA is only such a big thing in our society because sex is such a big and separate and taboo thing in our society.
Sex work is work, and similarly, child sexual abuse could be said to be just a child abuse. It's only because sex is considered to be such a special thing, that child sexual abuse gets disproportionate amount of attention (with it being used to introduce all kinds of surveillance for everybody for example), while all the other child abuse gets almost no attention at all.
And yes, children are hugely traumatized by sexual abuse (compared to other forms of abuse), but how much of that difference is caused by our society telling them that sex is such a special thing that they should feel traumatized in a very special way by this specific form of abuse? (Both explicitly and implicitly, by subjecting victims of CSA to all the experiences they have to face after the fact of CSA).
And also, yes, perhaps if sex was considered to be just an activity (although more intimate than many other activities), then a lot less people would be willing to abuse children in this specific way, because it just would not be The Thing.
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@mcc@mastodon.social @ptrc@social.treehouse.systems @heathen_cat@furs.social yes I understand it now
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@biogeo@mefi.social @futurebird@sauropods.win like they prosecuted Trump with their justice delayed?
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@mcc@mastodon.social @heathen_cat@furs.social I just cannot find this see also on Wikipedia, maybe I misunderstood what page is it from?
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@maartje@blahaj.social @Weehaj@blahaj.social it sounds healthy
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@mei@donotsta.re just set "means of transport" filter to "EuroCity and intercity trains only", and you'll get connections starting at 10€ (with change in Berlin).
Bonus tip: if you're traveling from Poland, you can just buy a through ticket (with the same filter); getting to Magdeburg will then cost you just like 5€ extra compared to getting to Frankfurt.
It's just that regional tickets are all only sold with expensive base (flex) fare making them more expensive that saver fares on long-distance trains.
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@buncube@transfem.social @Mimesatwork@wandering.shop @butchrobot@shork.nerdmusic.net uhh that's not what I meant 😅 what I was talking about was more like, people who don't have private housing and don't have enough money on hotels etc need alternative free places to fuck (in privacy).
Kinda like we have with public toilets.
But also I don't disagree with what you're saying, with one caveat that of course this has to be consensual for everybody including those who see it (because unfortunately I've seen it on fedi more than once that people talk about having sex in public spaces, _flaunting_ that unwilling unexpecting bystanders witnessed it).
Incidentally I recently read a really good book, "The Thick and the Lean" by Chana Porter, where one of the main premises is "what if there was a society just like ours but where sex is considered to be as mundane as eating is in ours, and where eating is considered to be as taboo as sex in ours?"
And also to expand on this, I'm currently lucky to live in a country where unclothed bodies are accepted in dedicated spaces (including some beaches and some lawns), and I think this does wonders for body positivity, because instead of only seeing unhealthy photoshopped images in glossy magazines, people can see actual bodies the way they are in all their diversity.
Unfortunately even in this country the practice was slowly dying out in the last decades, I wish it expanded more instead.
And I wonder how life would be if there was a similar approach to sex.
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@leeloo@c.im @adapalmer@wandering.shop and that's just one reason why it won't really work and is more of a hype.
@jon@gruene.social who is a rail expert lists more reasons: https://jonworth.eu/solar-panels-between-the-tracks-on-an-active-railway-line-a-dreadful-idea/
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Of course no lanes were closed for cars and repurposed as a temporary footpath.
In Berlin in similar cases people just repurpose the outermost lane themselves (by simply walking on it regardless of the signage; idk whether this is technically legal but nobody seems to care). But this is probably less effective in places with less foot traffic and with intense car traffic.
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@whitequark@social.treehouse.systems @0xabad1dea@infosec.exchange but that's basically the same alphabet
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@butchrobot@shork.nerdmusic.net @Mimesatwork@wandering.shop @buncube@transfem.social
How many decisions do you regret that you made at 14?
A lot in fact. Some of them I didn't know I made because society made them for me. Some of them, my parents did for me. A huge problem with a lot of these decisions is that they're not easily undone, in many cases because society deliberately makes them difficult to undo. I can also say the same about decisions made at 16, or at 18, because I didn't just wake up one day on my birthday as a fully formed responsible person. (None of them as bad as getting pregnant, but still.)
Also CW mentions grooming and a significant part of our society doesn't even really consider it to be abuse on a technicality, simply because no sexual act happens until technically the child reaches the age of consent. Although actually it is just as bad as other forms of CSA.
Well, imagine getting pregnant and married at 14
If we're talking about some idealized world, well maybe then marriage should also not be what it is now (if at all), and maybe it should be unacceptable that people become pregnant at 14. But weirdly enough, some parts of our society seem to be very interested in introducing global surveillance under the pretext of banning children from internet under the pretext of saving them from sexual abuse, and at the same time to be very interested in forcing the abused children to carry the pregnancy to term (as if this did not compound the abuse extremely, as if this did not constitute a separate form of abuse probably much worse than the rape itself).
But thank you for your perspective, I never heard this reasoning about CSA being different from other forms of abuse before. Usually it goes more like that: "OBVIOUSLY sex is an extremely special thing so OBVIOUSLY sex work is not a real work but something entirely different and OBVIOUSLY child sexual abuse is not a real abuse but something entirely different so OBVIOUSLY we need to surveil the entire population to ensure that nobody younger than 21 never hears anything related to sex in the spaces we control and that no adult ever pays transactionally to another adult for sex in the places we control, and if you disagree then OBVIOUSLY you're a pedophile and rapist and support human trafficking".