Ace/Acey🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍

Holy shit my patience has been worn completely thin today by people.

That is all😉 #cat #catsofmastodon

A gentle reminder: "witch" is a gender neutral term. There are witches who are not women♥️ #witch #witchcraft

Dysphoria is kicking my femme ass today it seems. First time I've had dysphoria as my girl self. Oof.

Today I took a more femme bag out with me when I went to run errands. It's not super femme, and can be worn as crossbody or over-shoulder or carried as a handbag. I needed something that I could make work with my usual masc style(although I'm slowly adding some more femme aspects to that too), and really wanted to attempt the "handbag" thing instead of carrying my wallet in my pants as I usually do as my guy self. I also wore some mascara. It was a success. Hooray for gender euphoria! I'm loving being bigender, and really enjoying being my woman/femme self right now. Life is short, and at 46 and with dodgy health and disability, I don't have time to waste. I deserve full happiness and joy, and I'm grabbing hold of it all with both hands🥹💖 #woman #femme #bigender #trans #joy #livelifetothefullest #gendereuphoria

URGENT. NEEDED TODAY. PLEASE BOOST FOR ME. Friends, all the recent medications before and after surgery now mean I have developed oral thrush. It's painful and irritating and I urgently need medication to relieve it. I'm under the poverty line, disabled and chronically unwell, and truly at wits end at this point as you can imagine, after everything else😅 If anyone could help me reach my urgent goal of $45 to cover this and some numbing throat spray and I can go and get relief today, I'd be very grateful. Thank you💖 #boost #boostforreach #help #disabled #chroniciallyill #MutualAidRequest #mutualaidspace #kindness #hope #gratitude #holdon #relief #care #kindnessmatters #loveinaction #disabledmutualaid #trans #transgender #bigrnder #neurodivergent #antipoverty #povertykills #mutualaidsaveslives #chronic #chronicallyill #mentalhealth #wellness #struggling #optimism #catlover #doglover #creative #femme #masc #human #tired #fatigued #MutualAidThread #MutualAidMondayhttps://ko-fi.com/aces_funhouse

PLEASE BOOST FOR REACH. Bigender friends: I'm new to the discovery that I'm bigender(trans man, and woman), and I'm wondering how many of you who are also bigender use separate names for your different genders. Do you have different names, or do you use a gender neutral or non-binary name that works across all? #bigender #gender #lgbtqiaplus

I managed to run errands. Exhausted now, but home again. Here, have some blue Aussie sky and a beautiful big tree. #treesofmastodon #trees #naturephotography #sky #australia

PLEASE BOOST FOR ME! It's spring in my corner of the world, and warming up quickly in the rush to summer. I rent my home, and while I have a portable air conditioner in the bedroom, in the high Aussie heat of summer of over 40C/104F, it's still far too hot in the rest of the house, and makes my disabilities and chronic illness worse. I have no aircon or fans in the rest of my tiny apartment, and with my disabilities and chronic illness, I could really use a fan this year, so I'm not shut in the bedroom constantly. I really need a 40cm, metal blade fan for it to be effective along with my usual cooling towel, cooling mat etc. I live under the poverty line, so this is out of reach for me. If you could help make it possible for me to get the fan I need, and help make spring and summer more bearable with disability and chronic health issues, it would be much appreciated. My goal is $99.95(cheapest one I can find and also free delivery to my door as I can't get to a store and cart one home due to disabilities). Thank you so much💖 #boostforhelp #MutualAidRequest #mutualaidspace #disabled #chronicillness #neurodivergent #lgbtqia #plural #bisexual #bigender #pluralgang #mutualaid #MutualAidSavesLives #summer #grateful #hope #love #disabilityrights #gratitude #thankful #smalljoys @mutualaidspace@mutualaidspace.org @mutualaid@fedigroups.social #thankyou #poverty #povertykills #heatkills #heatstrokeprevention #chronicpain #HeatIntolerancehttps://ko-fi.com/aces_funhouse

Out of surgery and back on the ward. Longer, multi-faceted operation, but it was a success. Tired but relieved. Will update further when I'm less groggy😂

RE: https://lgbtqia.space/@aceofcosmicspace/117388322996515225 PLEASE BOOST. Okay, as a trans *man* I experience dysphoria sometimes, but I've never experienced dysphoria as a woman before, as I've never been a woman before(long story but the fact I am plural accounts for much of that). For additional context, I've recently discovered I'm bigender(trans man, and woman). In many ways this feels more closely aligned with trans women's experience than cis women's experience...so, my trans women fedi friends, what do *you* do when you feel dysphoric to feel better please? Tips, tricks etc greatly appreciated. (Femme language towards me in comments please, and my femme/girl name here online is Acey💖) #trans #transwomen #transgrnder #dysphoria #bigender #bisexual #plural #transgirlstuff

No private room this time, but I am here, and so is Mini Baby Yoda😁

Alright, this cracked me up as a bigender person😂Got 'em😉 #bigender #meme #genderjourney #gendereuphoria

For those of you following along at home-it's surgery day! I'm up and getting ready to get to the hospital. Prayers, good vibes, positive thoughts, spells etc please, as I'm going into this surgery already knowing there are complications, and after the last surgery was unsuccessful. I really need a good outcome this time😂 Wish me luck!

A double rainbow from yesterday that I saw on my way in to hospital🌈🌈 #rainbow #happiness #hope #health

My long-distance husband, excited at learning I'm bigender: Fuck yeah! I'm the luckiest man in the world twice over now. First time when you became my husband, and now again, to be able to have you as my wife as well! I adore this man so damn much🥹🥰

A little splash of orange for you #orange #flowers #nature #Bloomscrolling

Still a lot of sleeping happening here, so not around much, but hanging in there until surgery day😝Love you all, fedi friends💖

In case you need a reminder💖 #takeyourmeds #hydrate

Apt🥹

Yep. #intersectionalfeminism #feminism #bigender #feminismforall #whimsy

#adhd #neurodivergent #autism #audhd

RE: https://lgbtqia.space/@captainvellalives/117346405168921838 *bashes on sign* THIS!

I'm having a fantastically girly day, pottering about gently after my medical appointments, and feeling grateful that I discovered I'm bigender and get to experience all of this now. For me, realising that I'm also a woman has felt like when I came out as a trans man in some ways-and it currently feels very much like another transition, in a sense. Because I'm also plural, there's been additional nuance and complexity around my discovery that I'm bigender, and that's okay too. I love being a trans man, and I love being a woman💖🥰 #bigender #trans #gendereuphoria #joy #happiness #hope

A little brightness for you that I found the other day #flowers #naturelovers

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Errands run, dishes done, and bed made with fresh sheets so I can come home to a comfy bed after hospital. Having a little rest, and then we tackle some tidying. I have to fast from midnight, so I'm eating as much as I want until then, and have upped my water intake over the past day so that I give myself the best chance of staying hydrated, and not getting a migraine before surgery(or after, though I'm prone to them after anaesthetic). Resting in between tasks because pain is high, but feeling like I'm on track to being ready😁 #preparing #optimism #hope #focus #disability #chronicillness #chronicpain #hearthealth #kidneys #ptsd #fibromyalgia

A reminder💖

It's been a day of mostly sleeping. Surgery is next week. Hanging in there. The finish line is in sight😁💖

URGENT. PLEASE BOOST. Got a call from the hospital with some unexpected results- yet *another* infection. I'm so tired. No wonder I feel so unwell and have so much pain😅 Only a few days to go before my next surgery(let's hope this one is successful😅), but now I need antibiotics again. I'm under the poverty line, flat broke, disabled and chronically ill, and struggling with this infection. Could you help please? I can't do without the antibiotics. My goal is $50 to get the meds and some food for lunch and dinner today because I'm too unwell to cook. Thank you so, so much for helping❤️ #boost #mutualaid #chronic #urgent #fatigue #chronicallyill #pain @queer #trans #transrights #disabled #health #lgbtqia #lgbtqiaplus #meds #jope #grateful #MutualAidRequest #mutualaidspace #mutualaidboost #MutualAidSavesLives @mutualaid@ovo.st @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@kolektiva.social @shareish@mapstodon.space #help #hanginthere #catlover #vegetarian #catsofmastodon #dogsofmastodon #creative #witch #bisexual #optimistic #fibromyalgia #ptsdrecovery #ptsd #thankyoi #fedi #fediverse #thanks4posting #thankful #chinup #kidney #heart #fatigue #bigender #plural #thingstobethankfulforhttps://ko-fi.com/aces_funhouse

RE: https://mastodon.social/@patioboater/117351790742460247 Look at Benny!🥹🥹🥹🥹

@kagan@wandering.shop thank you so much!🥰

@agatha@gts.snkrgirl.cfd good morning to you!🥰

@amsomniac@mastodon.mit.edu That's awesome! I have an ex who is trigender. I just didn't expect at this point I'd be bigender, but here I am😂The exciting part for me is that it's almost like a whole transition again in the woman sense, not "going back to being a woman." , and I get to not only explore and enjoy all that while also still being a proud trans man. I'm super excited, to be honest. It will be interesting to see what changes I make to appearance, style, etc as well as whether it ends up being that sometimes I'm man, sometimes I'm woman, or if they two will basically just be present and intertwined day to day. So far there are distinct shifts between the two😁

@BlippyTheWonderSlug@ieji.de nice!

Disability and chronic illness life be like: #disabled #chronicallyill

RE: https://bots.robots.rodeo/@scream/117318140744145702 Me, when people need things last minute but my disability needs three business days notice to even attempt it and my bank account says "who are you kidding?"

URGENT! BOOST PLEASE! Friends, I'm sorry, but I'm stuck! Specialists have decided they want last minute tests done(tomorrow 24th Sept😅) before next weeks surgery, and as I already live under the poverty line, I've allocated all my money towards getting to and from next week's surgery. Can you help me get to the appointment and back please? It's too far to walk there(plus too unwell to even attempt that). My goal is $50 to cover Uber there and back and any meds they prescribe. Thank you!♥️ #boost #urgent #help @mutualaid #chronicallyill #disabled @mutualaidspace #poverty #fediverse #fedifriends @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st @disabledvoices@newsmast.community #disabledmutualaid #community #grateful #hopeful #love #kindness #care #chronicpain #FibroWarrior #kidneys #heart #ptad #cptsd #neurodivergent #plural #boostforhelp #MutualAidRequest #mutualaid #mutualaidboost #mutual #aid #communitymatters #trans #transgender #bigender #bisexual #mentalhealth #MutualAidThread #MutualAidSavesLives #mutualaidnethttps://ko-fi.com/aces_funhouse

RE: https://pixelfed.art/p/LizCallister/1007807810294862949 Making the timeline vibrant with bright art🥰 #art #artofmastodon

@eri@plush.city such a lovely pic🥰🥹

@neil@mastodon.neilzone.co.uk this is me! Much challenge😅. Happy Friday to you. I hope you're going okay🥰

@cringu@kinkycats.org thank you so much! It's not where I expected to be at almost 47, but I'm excited as heck. I figured I'd post about it because it may help someone else too, you know?🥰

One step at a time #stepbystep

@love@thistlenfern.org 🥰🥰🥰

RE: https://hachyderm.io/@selfcare/117344444716461864 Don't forget to hydrate, friends

@Msloftis@mastodon.art beautiful work!

Three good things today: The start of a new week, and this time stent free! A new chapter beginning as another chapter ends in my personal life. Another day I get to be my girl self. Hooray! #ThreeGoodThings #3GoodThingsToday #grateful

RE: https://fed.amazonawaws.com/notes/argtbrw3a52dg63k Love you, fedi friends💖

Three good things so far today: *Medical appointments done. All set for next week's surgery(and so far, feeling good about it and no apprehension) *Enjoying being a girl, hanging out with a system-mate and talking about femme clothing ideas *Feeling loved and supported in my bigender journey #ThreeGoodThings #3GoodThingsToday #3goodthings #thingstobethankfulfor #joy #happiness #contentment

RE: https://mastodon.redgarterclub.com/@AnthonyJK/117319722239338383 Help if you can, friends. Boost for reach too💖 #boost #mutualaid