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Hope you're well today. TL;DR is I'm raising money for tummy medicine and dog food. Grateful for any amount (only if you can spare it). 🙏🥺 ($0/$50) Cashapp: https://cash.app/$mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Hi, I'm a painfully neurodivergent and chronically underemployed pan nb, a father to twins, and between jobs. Today I'm trying to gather up about $50 for medicine and dog food. I'll forever remember and be thankful if you are willing to lend me your support or buy some of my music. I also take gameplay requests (at no cost). Every penny goes directly toward surviving hard times. My handles are below. Pics are of my dog, Biscuit and her handiwork; foot for scale. Thank you for hearing me out. BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Cashapp: https://cash.app/$mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/ottercynical Straw Page: https://theottercynical.straw.page/ @mutualaid@ovo.st @MutualAidBot@mastodon.world @mutualaidboost@bird.makeup @mutualaid@a.gup.pe @mutualaid@tags.pub @actuallyautistic@a.gup.pe @actualyautistic@a.gup.pe @actuallyautistics@neurodifferent.me @actuallyadhd@a.gup.pe @ActuallyADHD@ovo.st @actuallyadhd@fedigroups.social @comrade@mutualaidspace.org #AuDHD #ADHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #Disability #Disabled #DisabledArtist #ChronicUnemployment #MutualAidRequest #MutualAid #Poverty #fundraising #begpost
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RE: https://is.nota.live/@ottercynical/117394528687456160 Struggling artist pls hlp 🙏😭 Cashapp: https://cash.app/$mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Straw Page: https://theottercynical.straw.page/ @mutualaid@ovo.st @MutualAidBot @mutualaidboost @mutualaid@a.gup.pe @mutualaid@tags.pub @actuallyautistics @actualyautistic @actuallyadhd@a.gup.pe @ActuallyADHD@ovo.st @actuallyadhd@fedigroups.social #AuDHD #ADHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #Disabled #DisabledArtist #ChronicUnemployment #MutualAid #Poverty #fundraising #begpost
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Hope you're well today. TL;DR is I'm raising money for tummy medicine and dog food. Grateful for any amount (only if you can spare it). 🙏🥺 ($0/$50) Cashapp: https://cash.app/$mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Hi, I'm a painfully neurodivergent and chronically underemployed pan nb, a father to twins, and between jobs. Today I'm trying to gather up about $50 for medicine and dog food. I'll forever remember and be thankful if you are willing to lend me your support or buy some of my music. I also take gameplay requests (at no cost). Every penny goes directly toward surviving hard times. My handles are below. Pics are of my dog, Biscuit and her handiwork; foot for scale. Thank you for hearing me out. BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Cashapp: https://cash.app/$mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/ottercynical Straw Page: https://theottercynical.straw.page/ @mutualaid@ovo.st @MutualAidBot@mastodon.world @mutualaidboost@bird.makeup @mutualaid@a.gup.pe @mutualaid@tags.pub @actuallyautistic@a.gup.pe @actualyautistic@a.gup.pe @actuallyautistics@neurodifferent.me @actuallyadhd@a.gup.pe @ActuallyADHD@ovo.st @actuallyadhd@fedigroups.social #AuDHD #ADHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #Disability #Disabled #DisabledArtist #ChronicUnemployment #MutualAidRequest #MutualAid #Poverty #fundraising #begpost
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Hope you're well today. TL;DR is I'm raising money for tummy medicine and dog food. Grateful for any amount (only if you can spare it). 🙏🥺 ($0/$50) Cashapp: https://cash.app/$mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Hi, I'm a painfully neurodivergent and chronically underemployed pan nb, a father to twins, and between jobs. Today I'm trying to gather up about $50 for medicine and dog food. I'll forever remember and be thankful if you are willing to lend me your support or buy some of my music. I also take gameplay requests (at no cost). Every penny goes directly toward surviving hard times. My handles are below. Pics are of my dog, Biscuit and her handiwork; foot for scale. Thank you for hearing me out. BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Cashapp: https://cash.app/$mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/ottercynical Straw Page: https://theottercynical.straw.page/ @mutualaid@ovo.st @MutualAidBot@mastodon.world @mutualaidboost@bird.makeup @mutualaid@a.gup.pe @mutualaid@tags.pub @actuallyautistic@a.gup.pe @actualyautistic@a.gup.pe @actuallyautistics@neurodifferent.me @actuallyadhd@a.gup.pe @ActuallyADHD@ovo.st @actuallyadhd@fedigroups.social #AuDHD #ADHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #Disability #Disabled #DisabledArtist #ChronicUnemployment #MutualAidRequest #MutualAid #Poverty #fundraising #begpost
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RE: https://is.nota.live/@ottercynical/117391088349559712 Struggling artist pls hlp 🙏😭 Cashapp: https:// cash.app/$mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https:// ko-fi.com/ottercynical BandCamp: https:// ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Straw Page: https:// theottercynical.straw.page/ @mutualaid@ovo.st @MutualAidBot @mutualaidboost @mutualaid@a.gup.pe @mutualaid@tags.pub @actuallyautistics@a.gup.pe @actualyautistic@a.gup.pe @actuallyadhd@a.gup.pe @ActuallyADHD@ovo.st @actuallyadhd@fedigroups.social #AuDHD #ADHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #Disabled #DisabledArtist #ChronicUnemployment #MutualAid #Poverty #fundraising #begpost
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Hope you're well today. TL;DR is I'm raising money for tummy medicine and dog food. Grateful for any amount (only if you can spare it). 🙏🥺 ($0/$50) Cashapp: https://cash.app/$mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Hi, I'm a painfully neurodivergent and chronically underemployed pan nb, a father to twins, and between jobs. Today I'm trying to gather up about $50 for medicine and dog food. I'll forever remember and be thankful if you are willing to lend me your support or buy some of my music. I also take gameplay requests (at no cost). Every penny goes directly toward surviving hard times. My handles are below. Pics are of my dog, Biscuit and her handiwork; foot for scale. Thank you for hearing me out. BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Cashapp: https://cash.app/$mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/ottercynical Straw Page: https://theottercynical.straw.page/ @mutualaid@ovo.st @MutualAidBot@mastodon.world @mutualaidboost@bird.makeup @mutualaid@a.gup.pe @mutualaid@tags.pub @actuallyautistic@a.gup.pe @actualyautistic@a.gup.pe @actuallyautistics@neurodifferent.me @actuallyadhd@a.gup.pe @ActuallyADHD@ovo.st @actuallyadhd@fedigroups.social #AuDHD #ADHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #Disability #Disabled #DisabledArtist #ChronicUnemployment #MutualAidRequest #MutualAid #Poverty #fundraising #begpost
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Hope you're well today. TL;DR is I'm raising money for tummy medicine and dog food. Grateful for any amount (only if you can spare it). 🙏🥺 ($0/$50) Cashapp: https://cash.app/$mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Hi, I'm a painfully neurodivergent and chronically underemployed pan nb, a father to twins, and between jobs. Today I'm trying to gather up about $50 for medicine and dog food. I'll forever remember and be thankful if you are willing to lend me your support or buy some of my music. I also take gameplay requests (at no cost). Every penny goes directly toward surviving hard times. My handles are below. Pics are of my dog, Biscuit and her handiwork; foot for scale. Thank you for hearing me out. BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Cashapp: https://cash.app/$mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/ottercynical Straw Page: https://theottercynical.straw.page/ @mutualaid@ovo.st @MutualAidBot@mastodon.world @mutualaidboost@bird.makeup @mutualaid@a.gup.pe @mutualaid@tags.pub @actuallyautistic@a.gup.pe @actualyautistic@a.gup.pe @actuallyautistics@neurodifferent.me @actuallyadhd@a.gup.pe @ActuallyADHD@ovo.st @actuallyadhd@fedigroups.social #AuDHD #ADHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #Disability #Disabled #DisabledArtist #ChronicUnemployment #MutualAidRequest #MutualAid #Poverty #fundraising #begpost
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I was and still am a "picky" eater. Everything plain, except for BBQ and cheese sauce. I've never eaten ketchup, mustard, or any of the condiments and sauces most people like, aside from when my order was wrong and I didn't check before I bit into my sandwich. Lesson learned. One day, it hit me that it's probably unusual to have eaten like that for 40 years. I'd never thought much about it until after I was diagnosed. #Autism #Adhd #Audhd #ActuallyAutistic
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RE: https://is.nota.live/@ottercynical/117344161661017580 Starving music artist please help 😭 $mrecon54 https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical @mutualaid@ovo.st @MutualAidBot @mutualaidboost @mutualaid@a.gup.pe @mutualaid@tags.pub @actuallyautistic @actualyautistic @actuallyautistics @actuallyadhd@a.gup.pe @ActuallyADHD@ovo.st @actuallyadhd@fedigroups.social #AuDHD #ADHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #Disability #Disabled #DisabledArtist #ChronicUnemployment #MutualAidRequest #MutualAid #Poverty #fundraising #begpost
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Hope you're well today. TL;DR is I'm trying to raise $50. You can support me on Bandcamp, Ko-Fi, or Cashapp. 🙏😭 BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Cashapp: $mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical I'm a painfully neurodivergent and chronically underemployed pan nb, a father to twins, and trying to get on my feet. Today I'm trying to gather up about $50. I'll forever remember and be thankful if you are willing to lend me your support. I also take gameplay requests (at no cost). Every penny goes directly toward surviving. My handles are below. Pic is my dog, Biscuit. Thank you for hearing me out. BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Cashapp: $mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/ottercynical Straw Page: https://theottercynical.straw.page/ @mutualaid@ovo.st @MutualAidBot@mastodon.world @mutualaidboost@bird.makeup @mutualaid@a.gup.pe @mutualaid@tags.pub @actuallyautistic@a.gup.pe @actualyautistic@a.gup.pe @actuallyautistics@neurodifferent.me @actuallyadhd@a.gup.pe @ActuallyADHD@ovo.st @actuallyadhd@fedigroups.social #AuDHD #ADHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #Disability #Disabled #DisabledArtist #ChronicUnemployment #MutualAidRequest #MutualAid #Poverty #fundraising #begpost
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Hope you're well today. TL;DR is I'm trying to raise $50. You can support me on Bandcamp, Ko-Fi, or Cashapp. 🙏😭 BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Cashapp: $mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical I'm a painfully neurodivergent and chronically underemployed pan nb, a father to twins, and trying to get on my feet. Today I'm trying to gather up about $50. I'll forever remember and be thankful if you are willing to lend me your support. I also take gameplay requests (at no cost). Every penny goes directly toward surviving. My handles are below. Pic is my dog, Biscuit. Thank you for hearing me out. BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Cashapp: $mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/ottercynical Straw Page: https://theottercynical.straw.page/ @mutualaid@ovo.st @MutualAidBot@mastodon.world @mutualaidboost@bird.makeup @mutualaid@a.gup.pe @mutualaid@tags.pub @actuallyautistic@a.gup.pe @actualyautistic@a.gup.pe @actuallyautistics@neurodifferent.me @actuallyadhd@a.gup.pe @ActuallyADHD@ovo.st @actuallyadhd@fedigroups.social #AuDHD #ADHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #Disability #Disabled #DisabledArtist #ChronicUnemployment #MutualAidRequest #MutualAid #Poverty #fundraising #begpost
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A stranger who never learned to mask described the collapse my own masking led to. One counterexample undid the theory. New essay on situational mutism and embodied cognition. Read free: https://medium.com/the-other-mind-autism-cognition-identity/masking-never-caused-my-silence-a-stranger-proved-it-eacac0176d20?sk=d0f2e986101ef6a0161c2fc1144d0af0 Following is free and keeps this writing going: https://medium.com/the-other-mind-autism-cognition-identity #Autism #Neurodivergent #AuDHD
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https://is.nota.live/@ottercynical/117294797102450762 Starving artist 😭 $mrecon54 https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical (goes to paypal) https://www.twitch.tv/ottercynical https://theottercynical.straw.page/ @mutualaid@ovo.st @MutualAidBot @mutualaidboost @mutualaid@a.gup.pe @mutualaid@tags.pub @actuallyautistic @actualyautistic @actuallyautistics @actuallyadhd@a.gup.pe @ActuallyADHD@ovo.st @actuallyadhd@fedigroups.social #AuDHD #ADHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #Disability #Disabled #DisabledArtist #ChronicUnemployment #MutualAidRequest #MutualAid #Poverty #fundraising #begpost
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Hope you're well today. TL;DR is I'm trying to raise $30. You can support me on Bandcamp, Ko-Fi, or Cashapp. 🙏😭 BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Cashapp: $mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical I'm a painfully neurodivergent and chronically underemployed pan nb, a father to twins, and trying to get on my feet. Today I'm trying to gather up about $30. I'm on hard times and haven't been able to secure a job in many months, and have gotten by on the charity of family and the kindness of others, but have little for myself. I post here because I appreciate the Mastodon community. I'll forever remember and be thankful if you are willing to lend me your support. I also take gameplay requests (at no cost). Every penny goes directly toward surviving. My handles are below. Pic is my dog, Biscuit. Thank you for hearing me out. BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Cashapp: $mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/ottercynical Straw Page: https://theottercynical.straw.page/ @mutualaid@ovo.st @MutualAidBot@mastodon.world @mutualaidboost@bird.makeup @mutualaid@a.gup.pe @mutualaid@tags.pub @actuallyautistic@a.gup.pe @actualyautistic@a.gup.pe @actuallyautistics@neurodifferent.me @actuallyadhd@a.gup.pe @ActuallyADHD@ovo.st @actuallyadhd@fedigroups.social #AuDHD #ADHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #Disability #Disabled #DisabledArtist #ChronicUnemployment #MutualAidRequest #MutualAid #Poverty #fundraising #begpost
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I'm not sure that dexamphetamine is the right ADHD medication for me. It does let me focus my attention but I'm finding it *really* hard to aim it properly. It's like trying to aim a 600x telescope without a viewfinder. More often than not I end up hyperfocused on procrastinating. Like what I'm doing right now. Maybe it would be good in a business setting where the direction is given from an external source and there are other people to keep you on task. #ADHD #AuDHD
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#ADHD #AuDHD "Yhteenvedon mukaan laajalle suuntautuva huomio voi auttaa löytämään kaukaisia mielleyhtymiä ja synnyttämään uusia ajatuksia

Luova ajattelu ei kuitenkaan perustu pelkkään huomion harhailuun. Myös kyky keskittyä yhteen asiaan on tärkeä, jotta syntyneitä ajatuksia voi työstää ja arvioida.

Luovuuden kannalta olennaista saattaakin olla kyky liikkua joustavasti näiden kahden tilan välillä."

  • Olen itse autisminkirjolla ja lisäksi ihan selkeästi se levoton kieppuja kenen keskittymiskyky herpaantuu ulkoisten ärsykkeiden takia, hälinän, melun, valosaasteen, sosiaalisen ahdistuksen, jopa hajujen takia..

Ikäänkuin kaikki suodattimet ja termostaatit puuttuis ja kaikki informaatio virtaa aivoihini suodattamattomina.

Olen yliherkkä. Keho käy yleensä ylikierroksilla.

Valtavan kuluttavaahan se on vaikka olenkin luova ja myös jo todistanut sen moneen kertaan tekemällä ja tuottamalla mielikuvituksellisia, monien ihastelemia tuotoksia.

Koulussa paikoillaan istuminen oli yhtä helvettiä!

Yleensä puhutaan että pojat syrjäytyvät ja pojille pitäis tarjota sitä sun tätäerilaista kuin kilteille ja kärsivällisille tytöille.

Ongelman sukupuolittaminen on meidän "tuhmien tyttöjen" sivuuttamista. Meidät yritetään häivyttää ikäänkuin meitä ei olis lainkaan olemassa.

Minä olisin tarvinnut koulun missä ollaan paljon ulkona, missä opetellaan muualla kuin ahdistavan luokkahuoneen vankina.

Minä rakastan VAPAUTTA! Minä vihaan kahleita!

Naiseksi varttuneena se olin minä kuka tuli raskaaksi ja lapsi on valtava kahle. En minä lastani vihannut, mutta vihasin usein sitä saatanan ahdasta äitiyden normia joka oli.

Inhosin kaikkia niitä normiämmiä, joita istui vanhempainilloissa jo päiväkodissa, he ja heidän "täydelliset" lapsensa. Vähä-älyisiä "ihmisiä".

Aniharvoin olen kohdannut ketään ketkä olis samalla aaltopituudella kanssani.

Olen uskaltanut elää erilailla. Olen rakastanut vapauttani niin paöjon etten ole suostunut jatkamaan ihmissuhteita joista on kadonnut idea.

Olen luopunut materiaalisesta onnesta menttaalisen hyvinvoinnin vuoksi. Enkä kyllä edes usko että sitä materiaalista onnea olis olemassa varsinaisesti.

Kauhuviso se on että olis pitänyt jämähtää johonkin valtavan asuntolainan takia, jumittaa parisuhteessa, jossa joutuu teeskenetelmään että jaksaa.. Teeskentelemään työpaikalla että jaksaa, teeskentelemään kaikkialla että jaksaa ja lopulta sitä olis pelkkä ihmisen kuori..

Osaan teeskennellä, osaan maskata. Olen entinen harrastajateatterilainenkin. Estradille ne esitykset sopii, ei ihmisen arkeen.

Tylsämieliset kai kykenee paremmin puuduttavaan, tasapaksuun elämäänsä, missä samat naamat luovat heille saman tyylisen turvan kuin oli lapsuudessa.. Epäitsenäiset ihmiset, ketkä eivät koskaan kasva aikuiseksi.

Eihän sille kukaan mitään itse mahda millaisin aivoin syntyy. Ketään ei voi syyttää, mutta yhteiskunnan pitäisi olla kaikille, ei vain tylsämielisille, tai narsisteille ketkä laativat sääntöjä muille itse niitä noudattamatta.

Läheisriippuvaisissa on myös narsisteja ketkä elävät kaksoiselämää. Salasuhteita, salalapsia, jalkavaimoja.. Sovinistina kaikki vaikuttaa olevan mahdollista. Valehtelemalla valtaan pääsy. Narsitinen muiden manipulointi, kyky puhua muut ympäri..

Onneksi en syntynyt sellaiseksi. En halua hoviväkeä, en halua kalifiksi kalifin paikalle. Rakastan vapauttani.. ❤️

Juice Leskisen sanoin: "Ymmärrä en niitä, jotka luotuja on kaksosielämään, kun en kunolla saa eletyksi tätä yhtäkään.." (sanamuoto ehkä eri, idea sama..)

https://www.hs.fi/tiede/art-2000012251865.html

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Hope you're well today. TL;DR is I'm trying to raise $30. You can support me on Bandcamp, Ko-Fi, or Cashapp. 🙏😭 BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Cashapp: $mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical I'm a painfully neurodivergent and chronically underemployed pan nb, a father to twins, and trying to get on my feet. Today I'm trying to gather up about $30. I'm on hard times and haven't been able to secure a job in many months, and have gotten by on the charity of family and the kindness of others, but have little for myself. I post here because I appreciate the Mastodon community. I'll forever remember and be thankful if you are willing to lend me your support. I also take gameplay requests (at no cost). Every penny goes directly toward surviving. My handles are below. Pic is my dog, Biscuit. Thank you for hearing me out. BandCamp: https://ottercynical.bandcamp.com/ Cashapp: $mrecon54 Ko-Fi: https://ko-fi.com/ottercynical Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/ottercynical Straw Page: https://theottercynical.straw.page/ @mutualaid@ovo.st @MutualAidBot@mastodon.world @mutualaidboost@bird.makeup @mutualaid@a.gup.pe @mutualaid@tags.pub @actuallyautistic@a.gup.pe @actualyautistic@a.gup.pe @actuallyautistics@neurodifferent.me @actuallyadhd@a.gup.pe @ActuallyADHD@ovo.st @actuallyadhd@fedigroups.social #AuDHD #ADHD #Autistic #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #Disability #Disabled #DisabledArtist #ChronicUnemployment #MutualAidRequest #MutualAid #Poverty #fundraising #begpost
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Question for #ActuallyAutistic folx who mask: Do you feel like your masking extends to your home? What I mean is: do you feel like you carefully prepare your home for any visitors to make it look acceptable to them before they arrive? And does the idea of having visitors without preparing your home for them beforehand absolutely terrify you? Like being seen without your mask? I am wanting to relax this part of me and welcome people into my imperfect home, but I keep getting overwhelmed by needing to analyse absolutely everything through the visitor’s eyes. I don’t want to do this and want to find ways to break the habit and anxieties. Socials (low key 1-to-1s, nothing fancy) would be so much easier if I could host. @autistics@fedigroups.social#AuDHD
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It's really weird to be hungry in the morning. It's been so long since my digestion was ready for it that I don't even know what to eat most days Don't get me wrong, normal hunger signs are a miracle for both the Long COVID and the AuDHD! #LongCOVID #AuDHD
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