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@stux@mstdn.social I routinely remove it too and it's funny, I didn't know it was a tracker, I just thought it was messy unnecessary junk and I didn't trust it. Which, I mean, yeah
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mastodon 4.7.2Writer, artist, anthropologist. Probably definitely autistic. In Corvallis, Oregon. I'm @independentpen on Pixelfed.
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Hi, I'm new to Pixelfed! #introduction
My Mastodon is not new, but my Pixelfed is! Keep in touch by following @independentpen@gram.social 😸
I'm making the move from Insta to Gram because I cannot with Insta, and I am at home here on Mastodon. So I decided it is time to bring my images to the fediverse. Hooray!
At gram.social I will be posting pics of my handmade, nondigital art (pointing to my Patreon, a combo of free, public and paywalled content) and photos from my work as an anthropologist. Plus the occasional dog and cat. (:
Because it's the fediverse, you don't have to be on Pixelfed to follow my images. Just follow @independentpen@gram.social from here, and the posts will show up in your Mastodon feed.
Looking forward to seeing you!
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My fifth grader is going through a wringer, which will surely only increase next year, sixth grade, new school. He's undiagnosed-probably-definitely-autistic with a big tender heart. And certain kids (who used to be friends) are doing little things that cut him to the bone, probably(?) because they know they can get a rise out of him. I know what I did to survive school at his age, but I don't know my strategies were best.
How do you advise your kid so as to minimize normie-inflicted trauma and preserve the availability and tenderness of that beautiful ND heart? What strategies do you advise? How do you prevent hiding, masking, toughening and shame?
#actuallyAutistic #askingAutistics @autistics@fedigroups.social
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@LoganFive@beige.party "Getting published is hard, prepare for rejection, polish polish polish." This led me to write for years without ever feeling ready, or having any idea how, to sell my work. I wish they'd told teenage-me, "Getting rejected by publishers is to be expected, but it's a numbers game, so let's figure out how to make querying sustainable for you! You got this! It's only a matter of time!" Also, "In the meantime don't forget what you're here to do - keep writing, keep getting better."
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@me @drewph@ieji.de Burnout and depression are diagnostically different in that doing small gentle things generally helps with depression, but is counterproductive with burnout. I'm struggling with burnout myself, and the deskilling is one of the scariest parts. Your description sounds to me like autistic burnout. I second what @pathfinder@beige.party said. Also, read this: https://www.heyasd.com/blogs/autism/autistic-burnout
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@ozeng@aus.social @rooster@beige.party @SRLevine@neuromatch.social see also the hen who, in the absence of a rooster, decides to socially transition
Every time #AI comes up in my classrooms I am relieved to hear the #students talk about it with nuance, restraint and concern. One student today said she's excited about some of the things it can do, yet thinks the mass rollout of #LLMs is reckless. When I said I am also impressed by some of what it can do she cut in to say, "But if you express approval for some of it, people think you approve of all of it." 🏆🏆🏆
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@regehr@mastodon.social @aburka@hachyderm.io @SnoopJ@hachyderm.io @dan@discuss.systems @dev@discuss.systems this man does not understand acreage, transportation, or tomato buying reticence
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@xankarn@mastodon.online I wonder how many of the same people refused to mask in 2020 because supposedly it made it hard to breathe
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@insanekid@mastodon.social if you're not sure how to get started on here, following hashtags is a good first step, and @FediTips@social.growyourown.services has lots of helpful info
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@AncTreat5358@lgbtqia.space do you mean health providers? It seems relevant for things like heart attack, which show up differently across sexes, no? Genuine comment; I don't mean to offend
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@dotjayne shall I punch you in the junk tonight, when you go to sleep? It will take an hour
I did a read-through of a novel manuscript that I completed a while back (#amQuerying). It's good to occasionally pick up something you've written and read it fresh, as a reader. It's *really* good to do that and think, damn this is a good ride
#writingCommunity
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@DavidM_yeg @thehole @oldladyplays absolutely not. With the exception of gribling. But only on Halloween
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@thomasjwebb @cwebber I'm not a programmer; I'm a social scientist. I occasionally converse with chatgpt to test its behavior in that domain. When it fails, I feel unsatisfied. When it passes, I feel unsatisfied. I find myself wanting to convince it that it shouldn't exist, as if it were a "someone" that could be convinced. I don't know if this puts me in camp one or two
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@Eetschrijver @queenofnewyork @fesshole you're assuming he correctly identified bufoonery in the other man
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@shadowspar "the system is broken"
"it's okay, I can just fix this"
"NO the system is BROKEN"
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@jrdepriest @cwebber there's an account on here called Simple Sabotage that may be of interest @simple_sabotage
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@gintoxicating bluehost, and hostpapa (because I got shifted to it after it took over Canvas which was a local renewable energy provider)
"No is a complete sentence," said Bartleby the Scrivener, looking up mildly through long lashes.
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@MFennVT @prefec2 @CharlieMcHenry there's no consensus on if or when, but this century is imminent enough for me