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Chaotic Catboy

@kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
mastodon 4.7.2+glitch.techlgbt
  • Open on tech.lgbt

Geek, nerd, cat custodian, social justice accountant.

Bi and trans.

Expect cat climbing wall pictures and Whovian Cat updates

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Joined February 10, 2023
Pronouns:
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Country:
UK
Age:
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 3w ago
Boosted by @trending@homestead.social
I need help from men who are shorter than 5'4". Where do you find coats that keep you warm and dry and don't look ridiculous on you? Are there particular styles that work better? Kids section is not an option because I am too wide. Please boost so someone else short and male might see it. #AskFedi #AdviceNeeded #clothing
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 1mo ago
I hope you understand that I absolutely had to do this. ELO - In The Hall Of The Mountain King https://youtu.be/7RvALffULXM On another note Lorde - Royals https://youtu.be/LFasFq4GJYM #JukeboxFridayNight #Royalty

In the Hall of the Mountain King - ELO | The Midnight Special

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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 6mo ago

Trans joy at finding and embracing ourselves is so pure. I absolutely love seeing other trans people picking up names, pronouns, clothing and hairstyles that bring them joy. Especially when they're ones that I discarded because they didn't fit me. You like that dress I brought to the clothes swap? You look amazing in it, go and have many good times wearing it. You're rocking my deadname? It's a beautiful name and it suits you, glad to see it bringing you happiness. Just because something wasn't for me, doesn't mean I can't get behind your love for it

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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 6mo ago
Replying to
@futurebird I joke about how Arthur always yowls at me when I'm brushing my teeth to remind me to put food out before I go to bed. I tell him how silly he is, because I always remember to do this and he honestly doesn't need to keep reminding me. Last night he didn't remind me. I was just drifting off to sleep when I heard outraged complaint noises from outside my bedroom door. I didn't put food out. It has been pointed out that it's not entirely unfair that he escorts me to the food and then back to his bowl. I do get distracted sometimes.
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 2mo ago
I saw a lot of my picks already, but don't think this one has been suggested yet. Walk Through the Fire - Buffy The Vampire Slayer cast https://youtu.be/wEZSupETl-E #JukeboxFridayNight #HotOrCold
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago

#SilentSunday

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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 3mo ago
Two from me today. Placebo - Nancy Boy https://youtu.be/PBxuq_eWW94 Kae Tempest - Diagnoses https://youtu.be/Qup3Y60TmTE #JukeboxFridayNight #Stereotypes

Placebo - Nancy Boy (Official Music Video)

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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 4mo ago
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@Melezioh@mstdn.games @argentum@mas.to @BriBear@blahaj.zone @crazyeddie@mastodon.social What I mean is that I prefer to go for an approach I have seen work better in terms of getting people to listen and reflect. Trans women being toxic to trans men isn't the same thing as cis people being toxic to trans men, because the relative levels of privilege aren't the same. Direct confrontation tends to make the attitude worse, because of how the recipient is inclined to frame it. Call that hand holding if you want but I am more interested in building community than us turning on each other in exactly the way many outsiders want us to. IMO there are too few of us to be more divided and we all have our own problems to be dealing with. Very Online trans women are actually not in my top ten biggest problems
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 4mo ago
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@argentum@mas.to @BriBear@blahaj.zone @Melezioh@mstdn.games @crazyeddie@mastodon.social I do see a lot of jokes on Fedi about force femming men with hormones in the water supply etc, and the people making them either forgot trans men exist or are joking about forcibly detransitioning us. Given how difficult many of us find it to get continuous access to testosterone, the joke isn't necessarily quite as funny from our perspective
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 4mo ago
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@argentum@mas.to @BriBear@blahaj.zone @Melezioh@mstdn.games @crazyeddie@mastodon.social I don't think it needs reporting, it's mostly not intended to be harmful. I do think gently pushing back against it is worth doing, but that's not a thing I especially want people doing on my behalf because it needs to happen with sensitivity to the context
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 6mo ago
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@ozzelot @Phosphenes @AnarchoCatgirlism Why does this make me think of that bit in The Matrix where we're told the dead are liquified and fed to the living? Or the news reports during the BSE scandal where it was revealed that animal feed contained the ground up remains of cows?
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 4mo ago
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@mjdxp@labyrinth.zone @Melezioh@mstdn.games There's definitely a lot of pressure on trans men to conform once we come out, because our masculinity is held up to closer scrutiny, but most of us are trying to do better
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago

I was recently in a study skills workshop where speech to text software was discussed as helpful if you can say words more easily than you can type them.

Obviously being mainstream education, there were recommendations for Windows and macOS, but nothing else.

I want to go back to the accessibility team with suggestions, because if I complain they didn't have any they'll most likely say something insincere and then never do anything about that.

So, if you have #recommendations for free or low cost Speech to Text software for #Linux users, please could you share them with me?

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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 4mo ago
Replying to
@Natasha_Jay@tech.lgbt Shouldn't that be at least 25 years old, because otherwise its political stance isn't fully formed?
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 6mo ago
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@Phosphenes @AnarchoCatgirlism @ozzelot The fact that I had an apparently recycled thought feels very apt here
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 3mo ago
So much of the music of Michael Franti and Spearhead is about trying to live a better life and be a better person, but this in particular got me through a difficult week and is always a good reminder of things that matter. Michael Franti and Spearhead - Do It For The Love https://youtu.be/97bevKOhWqs #Jukeboxfridaynight #LifeWellLived

Do It For The Love

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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago
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@ohmrun@indieweb.social "Why can't you leave the house without military operation level planning and a suitable time gap to maybe remember whatever you will inevitably have forgotten?" Because I have been this person too many times and I am too old for the results
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 4mo ago
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@Melezioh@mstdn.games @argentum@mas.to @BriBear@blahaj.zone @crazyeddie@mastodon.social It is a massive shame that this community has ended up being so divided, and I think that's a perfectly valid approach
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 4mo ago
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@greensofshade@mastodon.social @Melezioh@mstdn.games Saying men can't help their behaviour because testosterone makes them bad doesn't hold anyone accountable for anything. Part of treating people like adults is holding them accountable for their own actions
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 4mo ago
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@NanoRaptor@bitbang.social Oh I once got told it was cultural appropriation for me to use it because "chicks hatch out of eggs". I spent so long listing inside my own head all the crawling and slithering things that also hatch out of eggs that I never responded
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago
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@Zahlenzauberin@dresden.network @Willow@chaosfem.tw I did but they weren't especially intense. I did have a few months of bad sleep, but I don't think it had anything to do with testosterone, and I sleep OK now
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago
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@Willow@chaosfem.tw I was perimenopausal for 2 years prior to starting T. Not really sure what your friend is wanting to know, so I'm open to talking more about how it's been so far. I don't seem to have had the common experiences with hot flushes or sweating more, possibly because I had already adapted to that. Facial hair and body hair didn't take as long as I expected to start changing. Not really noticed a huge shift in appetite, but I was already constantly hungry. Changes in face and body shape have been quite slow.
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago
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@unchartedworlds @NatalyaD @xanna Thank you. That doesn't sound like an option for me to try, but it does seem like it could work well for someone with more tech skills. I will definitely pass it on
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago
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@chebra Oh, that looks like a good place to start. Will give it a try, thank you
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago
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@MokhtarStork@sciences.social @ChrisMayLA6@zirk.us I would wonder what you think you sound like here, but considering the kind of opinions you've shared about other people, I'm not sure I'm that bothered tbh
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago
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@MokhtarStork@sciences.social @ChrisMayLA6@zirk.us If you start with fewer negative assumptions ("getting in the way" for example), you might actually sound as if you are trying to understand
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago
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@MokhtarStork@sciences.social @ChrisMayLA6@zirk.us I'd imagine she would be socialising just like most other people. She's a wheelchair user, not a corpse
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago
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@SlatsGrobnik@mastodon.social Mine would text to let me know they could see the bottom of their bowls
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 6mo ago
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@MusiqueNow @Melezioh I think that point is covered pretty well in the linked piece
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 6mo ago
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@KatS I really do understand why it's not for everyone, but I am learning to be cautious about who I express that particular joy around. It's lovely to know that there are people I don't have to hide it from, thank you
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 7mo ago
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@atari@social.bau-ha.us And I thought my two were loud when they're hungry
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 13mo ago
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@girlonthenet@mastodon.social The last line is perfection
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago

Things that can all be true at the same time:

Most people experience only mild pain or discomfort during this procedure.
Some people experience more severe pain during this procedure, sometimes much more severe.
Anaesthesia and/or meaningful pain relief should be offered to everyone who undergoes this procedure. Even if only a small number of people experience significant pain, we cannot tell in advance who those people will be, and this is not a risk we need to take.

This is a post about IUDs

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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 4mo ago
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@crazyeddie@mastodon.social @Melezioh@mstdn.games @argentum@mas.to @BriBear@blahaj.zone I see we have already reached the Godwin's law portion of the afternoon, so I will respectfully decline to debate whether one of those things is actually anything like the other
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago
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@FoxesInLove@social.neonpaws.digital 🫂
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 6mo ago
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@damonology This is why 'anyone but cis men' events and 'inclusive' queer spaces where the organisers think open hostility to anyone they decide is too masculine is a good safety strategy are things I'm not showing up to or for
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago
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@NatalyaD @xanna Thank you
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 3mo ago
Most of my picks for this week have already been suggested, good work there folks, but please enjoy this glorious Collide cover of Fun Boy Three's The Lunatics Have Taken Over The Asylum https://youtu.be/SzrA1XYaUW0 #PowerPlay #JukeboxFridayNight
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago
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@virbonus@sueden.social @Amorpheus@kind.social @valcurious@lgbtqia.space @aesthr@wandering.shop There clearly isn't no such thing as spaghetti Bolognese, it's just not how Italians serve Bolognese sauce. You might as well insist deep dish pizza doesn't exist
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Chaotic Catboy @kittyboy77@tech.lgbt
· 5mo ago
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@Amorpheus@kind.social @virbonus@sueden.social @valcurious@lgbtqia.space @aesthr@wandering.shop Honestly the mental image you invoked was the right kind of terrible IMO but yes, that probably fits
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