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Cetraria

@Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
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InfoSec educator, technical writer and editor. #MCAS #POTS #NEISvoid

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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago

My friend did such a clever thing for her birthday party. Folks get up and do a 5 minute talk on something they're passionate about. There was such a great assortment of different topics at different levels of depth. It's just awesome getting to hear what people are passionate about. And it's fantastic for introverts, I was able to just relax and let other people talk without seeming evasive or weird.

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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago

Cool, cool, cool.
🫩

Does that mean people will start taking Long Covid and related diagnoses seriously?

No?

Yeah, okay, that tracks.

https://www.cidrap.umn.edu/covid-19/60-health-care-workers-may-have-long-covid-4-years-after-infection

Up to 60% of health care workers may have long COVID 4 years after infection
CIDRAP

Up to 60% of health care workers may have long COVID 4 years after infection

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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago

Welp, I just spent $30 dollars at the local feed store on 3 gallon-sized pots of what is essentially a lawn weed. Where the heck will I put all of them??

But said weed is commonly called juicy fruit because it tastes like lettuce infused with that gum. Buying it saves me from eventually getting into a car crash because I keep looking for it in seed on the side of the road. (Apparently it also attracts butterflies that may or may not live in my area, which is why it's being offered as an ornamental, when it is decidedly weedy-looking)

And I got something called a "four season squash" (edible in flower form, summer squash form, winter squash form and... In between squash form, I guess?)

I'm forever looking for foods you can grow that are edible at multiple times of year, because I invariably miss one window due to symptom flares. Having two or more options doubles my chances of getting to eat them.

I still need to try shelly beans... There's too many options, and I get sorta paralyzed by choice. Anyone who'd like to recommend a good green bean/soup bean/shelly bean or pea variety for the PNW, I'm all ears.
#gardening

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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 4mo ago

A couple shots from the garden as it slowly begins to fill out.

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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 4mo ago

I generally kinda suck at giving gifts for actual occasions. I'm better at the random-Tuesday gifts, when I'm like "oh, they clearly need this hedgehog-themed pajama set" or something.

But this year, I got a well timed bit of ham (not spam because I signed up for it, but still promotional email) that gave me the idea that Mom needed a delivery of frozen German bread for Mother's Day. I don't know why it didn't occur to me on any of the half a dozen gift-giving holidays between my first order and now... But better late than never.

She was as thrilled as I was with my first box. The brödchen absolutely takes us back to breakfasts in Germany. Now if only I had a time machine (or more energy to do homemade) so I could get Quark to go with it...

If I liked eggs better, it'd make me wanna get egg cups and one of those fancy egg cappers for soft-boiled eggs. Are slightly jammy eggs to eat in egg cups a thing anyone actually does?

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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@vlrny@disabled.social it very much depends on the disability. Me seeing someone who's paralyzed or someone with anatomical differences being supported would make me feel better about humanity, but it wouldn't positively affect my grief about my own disability. I don't see how someone with a crap immune system could genuinely be included in a "normal" life at this point. Similarly to what a previous commenter said, if I get Covid or some other disabling illness even once, it will probably end my life or remove the last little bits of my ability. Someone with a "normal" disability doesn't have to worry about dying from a common illness.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 12mo ago
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@cavyherd @dacig @JellyTBeagle I got hooked by the Internet in the eighties, but I also am quoted in an interview online in the 2000s as saying the Internet would likely become an unusable slag heap in ten years. My therapist was genuinely perplexed when I said meeting people online was the first time I was able to find acceptance, and a place I could avoid bullying. I know that's not people's experience now. The enshittification has been thorough.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago

My friend is having a PowerPoint birthday party tomorrow. Everybody has to talk in five minute slots. I'm trying to not remind myself I have panic attacks when I speak in public. Or that maybe I can sneak out first.

The largest part of me wants to talk about the odds of getting long Covid and the damage it does. But also, other guests will largely be people who don't mask much (and I'll be hiding outside). Doesn't seem like his birthday far to talk about my shitty health conditions. But what would I say for five minutes about gardening, foraging, diversity in STEM and security. The latter 3 sounds like I'm trying to kill people.

I feel like I could make a stupid infographic without using AI that explains the pipeline issue, but it's arguably still a bit depressing.

What should I present on for five minutes or less? Plants, native or perennial and edible? What's a Grex and why should you plant one? Why should women join STEM in spite of an extraordinarily leaky pipeline? Or, I dunno, why are Stardew Valley and Cozy Grove Camp Spirit the best cozy games? That at least is fun.

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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@tully I'm firmly in the anti-mint/anti-SLS camp. I use some random fruity kids' toothpaste because it's chalky rather than a gel, which is a sensory nightmare in its own way. I'd also like to point out that, since I've stopped using toothpaste with SLS, I've also almost entirely stopped getting canker sores. I've also tested this out with others who used to get them a lot - no foam, less sores, hooray!
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@mxchara @MissConstrue it took me at least a sentence to figure out that the second paragraph wasn't still about wild cucumbers. Thank you for the giggle 😂
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@YetiBeets@lemmy.world can you plant in those pots? They look like they'd be good for some small trees, which would do a lot to make it look more welcoming. You could even get small fruit trees.

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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 3mo ago
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@mikemccaffrey@pdx.social and it's supposed to make a very compelling tea that's prepared in a similar way to black tea. https://honest-food.net/fireweed-tea-recipe/
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@Em0nM4stodon@infosec.exchange I've been working in tech for almost 3 decades. I've seen a lot of s$#@, and would not recommend any company without reservations. It very much depends on both the company culture as well as the specific manager. I've worked for companies with a great culture but then left due to a manager (not even my own, but in another department I had to work with) who was a sexist bully. I've worked with groups where I was treated fairly, but then a great manager left and I was suddenly treated very poorly. I've worked in groups where I was the only woman, and in groups where there was only one man. I had hoped the latter would be like safety in numbers. The challenge there is that your whole group suffers from sexist interactions instead of just you individually. Sometimes being the only woman in your department can actually be protective, as your whole group is valued more highly. I am very happy with the company and group I'm in now. I feel well supported by my management and the groups I interact with. I hope it stays that way, but I also know this industry turns on a dime.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@Alairthephoenix my Zojirushi rice cooker has a porridge setting that works beautifully with steel cut oats, if you want them on the soupier side. Or you can just do it like regular rice and they'll be more like a sticky rice consistency.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@marsiposa@social.coop Exactly that. It was a nice creative outlet for a minute and let me brain dump at a time when I really was missing connection. And it gave me an excuse to figure out how to talk in a clearer way about trauma and plant grexes and stuff. But I'm not sure any other living soul read it. So hooray for a better form of social networking.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@marsiposa@social.coop That's very much it. I had just been laid off as a writer, so I felt like I needed to do something even though there was nothing I could really do. Mastodon posts are much more in line with my actual energy level, and have a far better audience.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@marsiposa@social.coop This labeling made me laugh out loud - that's absolutely something I would do, and then curse myself for doing it forever afterwards. I used to think about offering something like a WWOOF at my old farm where I really had room to do every project that interested me. In part because I could really have used the help! But then the pandemic happened, and the idea of having someone live on the property became entirely too fraught. I sometimes wish I had the wherewithal to do a YouTube channel of all the random niches I get into. I started trying to do articles on Medium in 2020, but crapped out after a few posts.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@yvan I wish you could transport this to me! I'm trying to have exactly this problem. I realize this is not a universal opinion, but I really prefer Claytonia to lettuce as a salad green. It's got a better texture in most cases, and better flavor.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago

@YetiBeets@lemmy.world what are you looking to do there?

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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 4mo ago
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@Amgine@mamot.fr @oldladyplays@wargamers.social raising their voice seems like a better choice than the guy who was also masked and took his own down because he was struggling to hear me. 🫩 But yeah, I'm hard to hear under the best of circumstances. The mask definitely keeps me from talking more than absolutely necessary to most strangers.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 4mo ago
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@Amgine@mamot.fr @oldladyplays@wargamers.social Now old, NB, and bi, but I've been this invisible since I was a teenager. I literally started wearing an anklet with bells on to announce my presence like a cat. Didn't work. But it was occasionally hilarious, as it made sneaking up on people comically easy. (Ironically, it wasn't clothes or piercings or tattoos that finally made me visible - wearing a mask has been the one thing that makes people notice me)
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 4mo ago
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@oldladyplays@wargamers.social My joy today is that I asked for a thing. Most places offer a warranty for their plants, I've never tried to call this in before, even when I really could have. It's just never felt like it's worth the stress and effort before. Last year, I had a landscaper put in a bunch of plants, almost all of which came through beautifully. A couple crapped out for no clear reason, a couple crapped out due to less-than-ideal care on my part. I don't so much care about the 3 small ones, but one of the "crapped out for no apparent reason" plants was a tree. It's both decently expensive and too big for me to deal with myself, so I contacted the landscaper about the warranty. (Double joy, he's happy to cover it!)
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@w_b@mastodon.world @Em0nM4stodon@infosec.exchange Bad bosses certainly are a good reason to leave. And there have been plenty of times I've quit jobs with wonderful bosses, but s@#&ty leadership. There are a remarkable number of points of failure in a corporate hierarchy.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@GwenfarsGarden I feel this... I had the same issue with Stardew Valley, which seems much less intense. But the fishing mechanism is so intense, I have to allow an extra "year" to get through that alone. The fighting is the same, until I can get genuinely overpowered.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@marsiposa@social.coop that makes me wonder if it's an international effort. Or corporate interference. I sort of understand the rash of thefts of catalytic converters. The copper thefts seem wildly out of proportion to their payoff.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@marsiposa@social.coop is that why they're always out of service? People are removing copper in the cords?
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@deepmud@mas.to it's more commonly called sheep/red/garden sorrel, Rumex acetosella. It's one of my favorite foraged greens.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@clew @yvan I imagine they'd make a great green mulch, especially if they die back to the ground during summer like they do here. And you can have a few good salads before they go and you thin them out for tomato placement.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@MissConstrue the tidbit about HRT returning your fury fills me with hope.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 6mo ago
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@Zodypop@oldbytes.space @Lizette603_23@mastodon.social the kale varieties I grow are much, much sweeter/less bitter, and with a texture less like shoe leather than what I find in stores. It's mild enough to eat raw in salads. No need for extensive cooking!
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 6mo ago
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@kimu@wandering.shop for me, the first vaccine was the roughest I've ever had. (I tend to over-respond to all vaccines) And yet, having watched young loved ones go through shingles infections, I'd get the vaccine every month for a year to avoid that pain and suffering! Twice is no problem at all.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 6mo ago
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@marsiposa@social.coop that's one way to do exposure therapy! Good for you for hanging in there. 💜
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 6mo ago
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@marsiposa@social.coop oh, and it's non-alcoholic - I haven't drank in many years either.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 6mo ago
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@CaramelizedShallots Not to mention, they smell absolutely disgusting and the scent wafts extensively. I saw a guy walking toward a line of these as street trees, reaching for a branch to smell. I imagine that was a rude surprise.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 6mo ago
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@marsiposa@social.coop ah! I really need to visit again, it's been a thousand years, and there's been so many things added I'd like to see. The new train, museums, the ginger beer place if that's still a thing... Some day...
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 6mo ago
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@inquiline my understanding was that they excluded everyone with pre-existing conditions, which after 6 years of a mass-disabling pandemic, is pretty much no one. And depending on whether they used the same criteria as insurance, that could have excluded all women and trans people of any gender.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 12mo ago
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@temptoetiam @JellyTBeagle I wish I had! My last printer would randomly turn itself on to do a cleaning cycle every day. Scared the absolute s*** out of me every time.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 12mo ago
@CliffsEsport @JellyTBeagle Not that I know of, but they could be just applying mitigations, having a less and less functional device. I think most of them were relying on security by obscurity.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@compoundchem@mstdn.social Yes! But I can never remember which is the variety that doesn't taste like soap to me!
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 2mo ago
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@jrconlin@mindof.jrconlin.com @ai6yr@m.ai6yr.org I hadn't heard that one. Is this some sort of AI psychosis? Nobody thought to look at a traffic cam before uprooting their lives? Or are they all moving to Weed or Pine Creek or something?
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@w_b@mastodon.world @Em0nM4stodon@infosec.exchange true that!
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@yvan That makes sense! (Rocket is also lovely! And I'm still trying to get mine to reseed 😅) On the plus side, putting in some tomatoes will thin them so they have more space. Maybe you could pot up some of the ones you take out for tomatoes, to sell or give away?
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@clew @yvan that sounds so lovely! What else do you use for rotation?
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 2mo ago
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@ai6yr@m.ai6yr.org do they think those states don't have all those natural disasters too? California is famously known for its not having wildfires, Florida for not having hurricanes, Texas for not having floods or ice storms. I don't doubt people are making these choices. But also, sheesh.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 8mo ago
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@Ashedryden@xoxo.zone oh yeah, no. I was literally just thinking about how I've never really gotten the hang of Discord. The signal to noise ratio is just so far off, I just kinda forget it exists. I'll definitely be peacing out on that one.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@Her_Doing@sunny.garden that makes such a difference, having help. I'm in the shunting mode too. If I'm doing really well I'll even hang up a print this weekend, to get it off the floor before the cleaner comes on Wednesday. It's remarkable how motivating that is to take care of even little things, just to make it easier for the person helping.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 8mo ago
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@annso@framapiaf.org @KatyElphinstone@mas.to I had to stick to writing technical "thought leadership". I once did a panel about how utterly and depressingly dystopian Star Trek was, because their security was so laughably bad. Why the hell are you people accessing the command deck from the hallways outside the flight deck? What the hell is the use case for that? I'd love to see the approval req on that one. Why is the entertainment system the one system that seems to be sufficiently privileged that it can access absolutely everything? Again, use case? Did we abandon the principle of least privilege in this utopia - no money, no poverty, so no...uh need to protect ourselves from some warring alien empires that might do some espionage, I guess?
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@Her_Doing@sunny.garden yeah, I'm definitely struggling with that. I really only occupy three rooms in my house, and they only feel "homey" because they've accrued such a mess. That is sort of the hazard of living alone with an energy-limiting condition. It feels like this is a really solid reason to start getting better at asking for help. That's very sweet of your friend to still offer to come over later! Hopefully they feel recharged soon and you get your chance to get together.
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Cetraria @Cetraria@neurodifferent.me
· 5mo ago
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@GwenfarsGarden That's awesome! I ended up switching to a cozier game, which is as low-stakes as it gets. Nothing is skill-based and time-based quests don't actually seem to advance the game. They're sort of a fun extra if you feel like doing it. It's not as beautiful or expansive as BotW of course, but I end up coming back daily for the character development. Hooray for good writing!
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