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surely bazkie 👩🏼‍💻 @bazkie@beige.party
· 2w ago
Datestodon profile Groningen NL (contains selfies)
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Quasit @Quasit@beige.party
· 1mo ago
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@alice@lgbtqia.space Okay, so here's a try: #Datestodon #FediDate #Dating #OM4F #Boston #Providence 62 year old cis hetero, demi, sapio, bookish, imaginative, funny, and geeky male looking for a woman in the area with some similar interests. Please be 40+. Me: Nonsmoker, non-drinker (nothing against it, just don't like the taste). I'm a cat person, not into dogs. Long-divorced single dad of an adult son. I love to laugh, read, write, cook, take walks, and run cool tabletop RPGs. A gentle soul with a kind heart. Hoping to find someone who "gets" me—and who I'll get in return!
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babble encat @babble_endanger@freeradical.zone
· 1mo ago
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Wait I should do this for dating.... #Datestodon #FediDate
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🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄) @alice@lgbtqia.space
· 1mo ago 
Datestodon — Fedi dating posts

Usage:
  #Datestodon #[AGE][ME]4[YOU] #LOCATION DESCRIPTION

Age:
  Y    Younger (~18-30s)
  A    Adult (~30s–50s)
  O    Older (~50s+)

Gender:
  F    Femme
  N    Nonbinary/agender
  M    Masc

Examples:
  #Datestodon #AN4FNM #Seattle
      Poly pan enby tomboy open to dates with FWB possibilities.

  #Datestodon #YF4M #Portland
      20s femme mycologist seeking fun guy.

  #Datestodon #OM4M #London
      Gay 63yo - London area. Looking for partner.

  #Datestodon #AFN4FN #Brazil
      32yo femby ISO femme-leaning person for hikes, surfing, and furthering the gay agenda.

Notes:
  - Hashtag codes are to get you into the right themepark, not a ticket to ride any specific rollercoaster.
  - Use the description for sexuality, relationship style, preferences, boundaries, and anything else that matters to you.
  - Orientation, cis/transness, "YOU" age, and other factors are intentionally not encoded.
  - Multiple "ME" or "YOU" categories may be combined when useful, but this will make your tag less searchable.
  - Age category applies to both "ME" and "YOU", and is intentionally broad and overlapping. The band is narrower at the low end and widens with each category. O isn't "old" it's just older than A.
  - F, N, and M are about presentation and identity, and don't cover all the complexities of gender, but they do provide enough info for *most* folx to tell if you're in their *potential* dating pool.
  - Keeping the hashtag code in the listed order and format will make it more searchable and easier for folx to read.

Update:

  • reworded some notes to address questions
  • removed (A)ny flag, as it overlapped with (A)dult, and just added complexity.

#FediDate #Dating

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Quasit @Quasit@beige.party
· 1mo ago
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@alice@lgbtqia.space Okay, so who wants to be involved in this? Who wants to work on a #Datestodon / #FediDate posting guide? It looks as if this will not be a major committment, apart from any minor revisions that might need to be made occasionally. It also sounds as if we'd just be posting the criteria to a couple of places. It would include a template for posting, a list of hashtags, advice on safe dating practices...it would also need a disclaimer, of course. Do we have any lawyers here? #Dating
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