Datestodon — Fedi dating posts
Usage:
#Datestodon #[AGE][ME]4[YOU] #LOCATION DESCRIPTION
Age:
Y Younger (~18-30s)
A Adult (~30s–50s)
O Older (~50s+)
Gender:
F Femme
N Nonbinary/agender
M Masc
Examples:
#Datestodon #AN4FNM #Seattle
Poly pan enby tomboy open to dates with FWB possibilities.
#Datestodon #YF4M #Portland
20s femme mycologist seeking fun guy.
#Datestodon #OM4M #London
Gay 63yo - London area. Looking for partner.
#Datestodon #AFN4FN #Brazil
32yo femby ISO femme-leaning person for hikes, surfing, and furthering the gay agenda.
Notes:
- Hashtag codes are to get you into the right themepark, not a ticket to ride any specific rollercoaster.
- Use the description for sexuality, relationship style, preferences, boundaries, and anything else that matters to you.
- Orientation, cis/transness, "YOU" age, and other factors are intentionally not encoded.
- Multiple "ME" or "YOU" categories may be combined when useful, but this will make your tag less searchable.
- Age category applies to both "ME" and "YOU", and is intentionally broad and overlapping. The band is narrower at the low end and widens with each category. O isn't "old" it's just older than A.
- F, N, and M are about presentation and identity, and don't cover all the complexities of gender, but they do provide enough info for *most* folx to tell if you're in their *potential* dating pool.
- Keeping the hashtag code in the listed order and format will make it more searchable and easier for folx to read.
Update:
- reworded some notes to address questions
- removed (A)ny flag, as it overlapped with (A)dult, and just added complexity.