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I've made a number of posts about flirting, and I often get replies/DMs from guys that ask "how do I flirt with women in a non-creepy way".

I've written a good bit about all the DOs and DON'Ts of approaching women, but I left at least one thing out, and I don't know how it took this long for me to write a post about it 😅

TATTOOS.

If you like queer/alt/badass women (and I mean who doesn't?), then I have four words for you...

"I love your ink."

Then you briefly gesture to your favorite visible piece, smile, and leave it at that.

As far as I know, most folx aren't born with neat tattoos, so that likely means they consciously put them there. A lot of thought, time, money, and pain goes into getting permanent body art, so this makes it an ideal thing to compliment. If they're displaying ink, then it was almost certainly made to be seen. It's personal, meaningful, and it's safe because it follows the rules:

  • something they chose (not something they are)
  • something they put effort into
  • something that's self-expression or expertise
  • something that's not objectifying

If you need a follow-up, (if it's recent work) "where'd you get it?".

#Flirting #Dating

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Guardian blind date: David the children's doctor meets Dec the culture writer - and Clapham comes up early https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/sep/19/blind-date-dec-david Guardian blind date pairs David, 34, a children's doctor, with Dec, 31, a culture and sex writer - an early admission about Clapham preferences sets a candid tone for the rest of the dinner. #lifestyle #relationships #dating
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LGsHeN6P-PU these people kind of make me sad. Aside from the vengeful ones clearly struggling to contain the anger. Talking about the woman saying "hey I have a great job and men still don't want me": yes, sorry, you've been lied to. Job doesn't set you apart in the #dating world. If you pursued #career thinking it was the key to building a good family... Sorry that's not it. You fell for the #corporation scams, I am genuinely sad for your misunderstanding, in the best possible way

MEN Going Their Own Way Has EXPLODED In 2026 And WOMEN Are Not HAPPY

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