Whitepaws &?🏳️🌈🇳🇱
A little fluff that likes hugs and softness. Also foxes and tea. Especially together.
Follows are manually approved for personal safety reasons. I will generally only accept follows from people that I have some trusted emotional connection with, like furries, therians/otherkin, LGBT+, plurals etc. I will decide on an individual basis, so please request a follow if you're not sure, but also understand if I don't feel safe accepting. Thank you!
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TIL and everyone else needs to know this exists:
https://www.foxopedia.org/
There's not a whole lot yet, but it is a wiki. And there's plenty of knowledgeable people here, I'm sure.
Them: Plurality isn't real, it can't hurt you.
Our brain:
I want a therapist who is a therianthrope. I want a theriantherapist.
The Netherbrains are located just north of Cerebelgium.
We have & in our display name because headmates often run as background tasks or daemons.
BRT: Bus that Really should be a Tram.
When your identity crisis is so big, you have multiple identity crises.
I wish #Mastodon gave finer control over who can see a post, than just "followers". I want to let people follow me as they wish, without having to worry about very personal posts being world-visible. It would be very good to be able to manually add followers (or even non-followers?) into subgroups based on trust level, and make posts only visible to those.
Is it possible that the reason we have difficulty figuring each other out is that nobody actually wants to be a separate individual (due to anxiety or otherwise) and they prefer to all see themselves as part of me? It does feel like the singlet identity is a shield, and embracing individuality is scary.
In other systems it seems like headmates readily identify who they are, they have an intuitive sense of their own personhood. But for us that rarely seems to be the case and everyone is just unsure of themselves. With a few notable exceptions in the past.
It makes it very tricky to figure everyone out. Because even when headmates potentially front again, they don't recognise themselves or remember who they were from last time. Like there's no continuity of identity between frontings. At best they can identify that they are different from the previous fronter.
Why is a ouija board called that, if it can also say no?
My mood today, from a conversation earlier:
My instincts right now are just saying I feel flop and demotivated and don't really want to engage with this much. Wanting to feel safe and comfortable more than explore strange new worlds. But I can't write a Star Trek episode with that.
"These are the voyages of the starship Enterprise. They didn't feel like boldly going, so they timidly hung around on Earth for 5 years..."
No matter where I go on Discord, whenever I look at someone's bio, they are friends with @Axel_Hugsky@chitter.xyz XD
@roxy@chitter.xyz It's funny to me when Ashe uses a cute little skunk emoji, and I think about how her actual appearance is such a contrast. :D
Why is it Portuguese and not Portugalese?