@vlrny@disabled.social it REALLY depends on the disability. mobility issues or muscle weakness isn't so scary seeing folks out here with their mobility aids. hell, even blindness/deafness i think i could get used to, even if the transition would suck
something like severe allergies, fibromyalgia, ME/CFS, cancer- there isn't really a way to make those less scary. i have friends with all of those things, they're living their best lives how they can, but even at their best, they STILL have to deal with so much pain and anxiety. there are some things for which even the best accommodations can't really improve much, and those are very hard to reckon with.