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The Bird

@Aaidanbird@disabled.social

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Thank you dear Quark Amaya McFluffers for being my kitty buddy for 16 years. I miss you.

I live alone in a city, and like to #write, compose music, and make art.

My goal is to live a life of love. Am on a lifelong quest to keep unlearning oppressive behaviors, #LandBack, and building #equitable, just, #antiracist, sustainable, consensual #community.

Admin for Disabled.social

1023 Followers

614 Following

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Joined November 12, 2022

ReshapingReality:

https://reshapingreality.org/

Pronouns:

They/Them/Theirs or Ze/Zem/Zir

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Anime digital drawing of a person with light brown hair swept up to a point, mauve skin, and wearing a grey mask. They wear violet shirt and jeans, and sit in a wheelchair. They hold the rims of their wheelchair wheels. The painting has a white background

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5d ago

I've been sick most of this year so focused on just doing behind the scenes server stuff to try to keep our server safe from the endless deluges of spambots and AI agents we've had lately.

I keep wanting to write a thread on a topic I'm researching (when I can't leave bed, I just read and take notes sometimes), but social media is exhausting to look at right now.

As a trans, queer, disabled person, the news of late is horrifying.

So feel free to share funny stories and/or kitty or bird pics!

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5d ago

I've been using the block the IP tool since this new spam attacks seem to come from one IP until that one is blocked then they switch it up I guess?

Do others have tips on how to block this spam attack?

We have always had our server so everyone must fill out an application and accept our server rules to join, but this is clogging up the apps so it's taking longer to find real people who are trying to sign up. Ugh.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

Replying to

Please boycott JK Rowling. I do not have the health to listen to defenders of Potter on why they won't boycott. Take that somewhere else please.

For those boycotting, here are alternative worlds from authors who are supportive of marginalized people:

Young Wizards series by Diane Duane
Emelan series by Tamora Pierce
Akata Witch series by Nnedi Okorafor
Animorphs series by Katherine Applegate
Percy Jackson series by Rick Riordan
Legendborn series by Tracy Deonn

Share others below!

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 1w ago

RE: @georgetakei@universeodon.com

This fucker is someone I have voted against, friends have tried to dethrone, and yet he persists. I wish I could shake the entire state to not vote ever for this man. He's utter trash. Just a walking talking trash heap. So many shit he voted for has harmed folks like me. May he step on flaming legos forever.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 1w ago

Regarding AI and its problems, this video essayist did the best analogy that I've ever seen. And highly entertaining video.

"You knew you could do it, but did you ever stop and ask if you should?"

#AI #StopAI #JurassicPark

https://youtu.be/RyOFDfpjR9U?si=-Hkgks2cEK40Be6N

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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I know even writing that means those who respond either listen in support or prove my point. I want people to boycott JK Rowling, which means stop watching and buying anything she creates (which means Potterverse especially). As she uses these funds to harm trans people. We have proof with her own words no less that she uses the money that way. And yet, Potter defenders just derail and attack instead of listening. I'm just TIRED of it. Diagnosing this may or may not help idk.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

RE: @petrillic@hachyderm.io

Please boycott JK Rowling and read way better novels by way better authors. Stop wasting energy on defending this franchise and join us in boycotting her so she has less money and visibility to destroy the lives of trans folks life me. If you need a better series to read and enjoy, let me know and I'll make a list.

Powder Douce Enby: "All the comment necessary." - Hachyderm.io

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

Lately, discourse on trans, race, disability, immigrant, and queer issues is exhausting. We lay out facts of what is happening and make calls for action, but I don't see solidarity actions or much fighting back.

I feel I'm yelling into the void, but not even the void is listening.

I watch as rights are stripped away from marginalized communities in USA, and barely anyone in USA speaks of it. Instead, we're caught up in a war of not-reality versus actual reality. It's disturbing to witness.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

I love it when the bots line up perfectly in my feed:

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 3mo ago

Can we make 4th of July a day of literally anything but USA?

* Make it a day to mourn those we lost to USA's past, current, and ongoing genocides.
* Ignore it and make it the day of napping
* Make it a piss off a fascist or punch a fascist day
* Make it a day to craft items to help others
* Make a vow to not shoot off fireworks that terrorize animals and can be triggering to those with PTSD and hearing sensitivity
* Make it a day of scaring away ICE

Anyway, be creative. Don't celebrate USA.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

Replying to

@inthehands Honestly, this is awesome of you. Considering how informative your threads are, I'm sure you'll do great. I do wonder if people were afraid that if they submitted a session about ICE that ICE might try to stop it? That invasion likely caused a lot of trauma.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 3mo ago

DARVO style of gaslighting is way too common in society (USA).
Deny
Accuse
Reverse
Victim
Offender

The person denies that their actions caused you harm.

They then accuse you of harming them by making the claim OR claim that the behavior they did was actually you doing it (often despite you having visible proof that they did it.)

They then declare themself the victim of your behavior and thus they do not need to be held accountable, only you do.

It's insidious. And it's nasty gaslighting.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

#DisabledSocial For our new people, do you have any questions?

Mastodon is a little different from the corporate social media like Facebook and others. You generate your home timeline by following people and tags.

If you'd like further tips, reply to this thread.

For established members, would you like to say hello to our new members from the new member thread?

@Aaidanbird@disabled.social

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

Replying to

@majorlinux That's... incredibly depressing. One can't be sustainable with AI; with the way it exists currently, it does tremendous damage to the environment and eats up way too much energy and water. Though I know you know that. I'm so frustrated as tech could be utilized in sustainable ways to assist in our revolution from fascists and tech giants... ... but a lot of people seem to have swallowed the whole genAI pill and fell into line with fascists far too happily. It's disturbing.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@WeirdWriter@caneandable.social @bookstodon@fedigroups.social I'm... baffled by this controversy. I've read her novels. They are very obviously anti-colonialist and anti-imperialism. Making these accusations just because a character is Israeli is... bad faith reading at best. Depiction isn't endorsement. Hopefully folks will read her works to see this for themselves. Babel in particular is literally a revolution starting at a university.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 3mo ago

Wish this was talked about more. Medical Trauma Is Real and is More Common Than You Think (Video by Jessica Kellgren-Fozard)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Uijou2QXB8

#Trauma #Disabled

Medical Trauma Is Real (And It’s More Common Than You Think)

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@emilymbender @404mediaco I've been asked by my doctors, and I refuse every time. I do so because as a chronically ill disabled person, doctors fuck up my care enough without genAI. I don't want that happening more and putting me into danger, especially with how complacent people get with this whole letting "genAI think" for them. It honestly freaks me out to know a faulty software is being used in the medical field. The ethics of it is dubious at best.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

Replying to

Let's welcome Angelcide to #DisabledSocial ! Although it's a few months late, I'd still like to boost and lift up their intro post! https://disabled.social/@Angelcide/116072253066034516

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Angelcide: "I'm still trying to figure out how to use Mastodo…" - disabled.social

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

Replying to

I'll take a break here. I wanted to try to cover everyone who joined since the start of the year. And likely keep the thread going for anyone else who joins and starts posting. But I'm a little dizzy now, so will continue later this week. : )

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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Let's also welcome @bird_thing to #DisabledSocial ! I did not find an intro post, but still wanted to lift up one of our newer members! https://disabled.social/@bird_thing

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bird (@bird_thing@disabled.social) - disabled.social

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

Replying to

@WeirdWriter@caneandable.social @bookstodon@fedigroups.social I personally read first Babel and the Poppy Wars. Yellowface is a good contender too. I think Babel is very heavy handed in its story-telling, which made sense world-building-wise in that its an institution, but Yellowface and Poppy Wars are more approachable I think.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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Please welcome @bugboy , @psystemfailure , @theblackparade , @pyrrh , @nebulacomet -- all new folks since January who have yet to post intro threads. Also welcome @BedFullOfPlushies who has been active since joining disabled.social, so check them out!

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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Let's welcome @PapalPenguin who joined back in Jan/Feb with this intro post: https://disabled.social/@PapalPenguin/115917298876532757

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Papal Penguin aka Derek: "My old instance disappeared, so I made the move t…" - disabled.social

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@futurebird @minmi as in literally carried me in her arms to her car. But then she does compete in StrongWoman contests...

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 4mo ago

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@iris_meredith@mastodon.social @pathunstrom@ngmx.com upcoming primaries and elections. that's why. it's too confuse the issues.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 4mo ago

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@futurebird@sauropods.win @josephcox@infosec.exchange At this point genAI is an onion, peel away one layer and more appear. It makes no sense to use AI to make AI less slop, just as it makes no sense to use AI to detect AI use. sometimes it feels like people give more rights to AI than to marginalized folks... I hate this. As a disabled writer who writes either by hand or types my human ideas with my fingers, I'll keep on writing my old fashioned way, but I'm bitter over how hard it is to share and be noticed now.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@WeirdWriter@caneandable.social I'll have to go search for that one! And that's valid regarding your reading habits. I try to support authors similarly to what you described. I use Bookadon more than Booktube tbh. I also use Storygraph and often peruse the books people use for their challenges. Speaking of book recs, I made a thread for folks to recommend alternates to Harry Potter (I boycott it), but have yet to vet authors on it. I got so many recs here! Was overwhelming.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@troy_frizzell@mstdn.social @someguy@beige.party To kill us. that's the only reason for this. It's another step in genocide.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@abvolition@spore.social What is a witness slip?

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

Do people on the fediverse know about Ellipsus? It's a really great app by writers for writers, and they are anti-AI and pro-privacy: https://ellipsus.com/

Pros:
* Easy to collaborate, examine, and merge changes. Including chats and comments.
* Good set of editing and writing features.
* All the best themes
* No AI
* Great import and export options
* Can post story directly to AO3
* Syncs across all devices

Cons
* is hosted online. No offline option.
#Writing #WritingTools

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

Replying to

@kbsez That's valid. Thank you for taking this time to engage with me on this topic. I do appreciate it. If you'd like more recommendations, I'm your person. I read a lot, and am all for sharing book recs with folks.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

Replying to

I finally caught up with all the people who joined since January who either posted or filled out their profile and profile pic. I didn't mention the ones who joined that show no activity as I'm not sure if those people realize their application was accepted or not. From here on out, I'll focus on new people who joined from mid-April onward. I'll take another break before I do that. :)

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@CorneliusHecker Honestly, yes, I think that diagnoses some of it. I also feel like the onset of generativeAI was done deliberately to poison our ability to do any research (as there's so much lying slop now) and convince us to stop thinking for ourselves (by relying on a not-always-accurate machine instead). So I think that plays into it too. So we're caught between denial, lying people and machines creating false realities, and fascists that gleefully exploit this to harm and destroy us.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@cwebber What always gets me about the whataboutism is that it's steeped in rancid individualism, which is capitalist ideology. And capitalist ideology won't save us or our planet. If those doing the whataboutism actually cared about our concerns, they'd be asking about ways to collectively organize to stop the harm of data centers. An individual is easily stopped, but an organized and radically aware group is much harder to stop.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@albinanigans @StaceyCornelius That's what I was wondering. It still says post pending lolz

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@kbsez My hope is that people don't fixate on just the Potter universe but explore the works of other people, especially authors like myself. We write worlds that break down bigotry to build up a more just world. The defense of the Potter universe to trans folks like myself feels very hurtful at this point. Because no matter how I respond, I am faced with people unwilling to expand horizons or acknowledge the biases baked into the text. Their defenses are brick walls to me.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@WeirdWriter @flipper @pluralistic This is the archived version of the article or do you mean pluralistic's post itself? https://web.archive.org/web/20260505172051/https://flux.community/matthew-sheffield/2026/05/richard-dawkins-and-the-claude-delusion/

Richard Dawkins and the Claude Delusion - Flux

Richard Dawkins and the Claude Delusion - Flux

Senescence makes people believe silly things; so does bad science

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@WeirdWriter@caneandable.social I have yours saved. :) Mine is https://reshapingreality.org if you're interested.

Reshaping Reality

Reshaping Reality

Reshaping Reality

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@WeirdWriter @flipper @pluralistic Gotcha. He was poking fun. Didn't find his post in wayback machine. i think i need to sign up to upload a post to save. so grabbed alttext and screen in interim.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@WeirdWriter@caneandable.social oh nooooo, I hope that's not the case! I'll delete mine too and stop rec-ing her. Unrelated, I rarely watch contrapoints tbh, not since the Buck Angels controversy. (He claimed nonbinary folks like me are co-opting the trans community and take away his rights. He's a trans guy who medical transitioned)). A few videos spoke more to the right than to someone like me, and the language used was a bit painful. So i looked for less triggering podcasts that do good research.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@kbsez By focusing on the defense of the Potter universe it derails all threads about Rowling's HARM, and thus trans people can't even talk about the harm she's doing because defenders of Potter universe are stuck in a loop of defending their fixation rather than listening to what others are trying to say. I point this out because I'm exhausted by conversations that try to defend the Potter universe. We can't stop Rowling's initiatives if this comes up every single time.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@crimsonfall@mas.to yesss. It's my favorite book of all time! needs more love.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@kbsez I personally found some fans are eager to tell me they'll support the franchise no matter what, and when I point out where her money goes and it's impact on my life, I end up dehumanized and sometimes mocked. Told it's impossible to boycott so why bother. So at this point, I can see why some people are angry at folks who claim to still be fans. That doesn't mean it's ok to be cruel, but I want to be clear that fans need to be kinder too. Try to meet in the middle with us.

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The Bird @Aaidanbird@disabled.social

· 5mo ago

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@WeirdWriter@caneandable.social Oh I should clarify that I'm glad her work helps deradicalize folks. I, as a survivor, just aren't her audience so I go to people like Andrewism, Jessie Gender, Alexander Avila, Atlas Altera, Andrea Pitzer, and others.

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