Break your gender.
Just because it has been assigned to you, doesn't mean that you have to keep it intact.
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Tress🏳️⚧️
@tress@lgbtqia.space
mastodon 4.7.2Hi, I'm Tress (she/her), trans, 40+, neurodivergent, burnt out dev and synthesizer lady.
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Joined April 05, 2026
pronouns:
she/her
flavour:
trans, bi/pan, demiromantic
writing about trans stuff:
breasts, insecurity, lesbian desires, trans things
nsfw, thoughts about posting nsfw photos
It is quite an interesting perspective to come back to my own, old gender transformation fiction I've written as a precious egg.
Please enjoy my gender responsibly.
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@Liza@lgbtqia.space yeah, it has some blemishes, I kind of had to change it last minute but I poured all my heart into it.
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@Bwee@meow.social *gives you attention*
btw: I "am" part time fluffy dragoness, yay, fluffy dragons!
@TheMercilessHeat@mastodon.social personally? mostly not. mostly due to how my attraction works (feminine focussed, too masculine doesn't do it for me personally), but there's two additional things in my mind:
I've seen too many unsolicited (dick) pics. Let's add & count posts without content warning to that. There's nothing erotic about it and this also kind of ruins it for other men because of the association.
It's hard to find aesthetically pleasing pictures. My first thoughts are, unfortunately, of a random guy badly taking a dick pic in a messy room. Unless that's the explicit intent, please guys, put at least some effort into it.
A nice cock with a hot guy makes for a more appealing picture imho.
That being said, there definitely are hot pictures of hot guys (and dicks) out there.
Don't let my personal taste discourage you. I do appreciate proper content warnings.
@TheMercilessHeat@mastodon.social Yes, but to be really sure I need more data…
@TheMercilessHeat@mastodon.social I can see it. I personally don't have the energy to engage with long form stuff (or external posts because every extra tab is additional mental overhead)
lewd, kink, nsfw
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@xorlou@lgbtqia.space full body laser is brave, congratulations on getting that far with it.
I suffered enough from face (and crotch) laser that I couldn't bear the thought of enduring any further laser :)
I finished a new post - about how I experimented with my gender expression and identity beyond artwork, through text roleplay and crossdressing.
"Playing with my gender until it breaks"
https://www.patreon.com/posts/157366059?collection=2146566<
#trans
It's been a few years since I've had my big surgery. I'm tracking every orgasm in my calendar because I want to track my libido and sexual function so that I can check if there's any change and determine what influences it.
I'm slightly frustrated that I'm not masturbating often enough. It still takes a lot of work and time and I haven't fully learned my own body yet. I can achieve an orgasm with decent vibrators and other stimuli (*cough* hot porn) and by now I've gotten to the point of being able to climax on my own without having to strain.
I no longer have the most sensitive parts, which I was previously relying on.
I had trouble reaching an orgasm when it's not me touching myself in the past already and surgery made that even harder - though, granted, I didn't have many chances to experience that *yet*.
I also gained a lot of weight, which probably makes pleasuring me a lot harder.
And then there's the wetness. I get severely wet from arousal and I feel as if I produce more fluid during an orgasm now than I did before I even started HRT. This is not a mess that is as easily contained as before, which kind of keeps me from just exploring and teasing myself unless I can lie down on a blanket. (I do keep a stash of pads in every room in my apartment just in case I get too horny and don't want to soak through all layers of my clothing…)
Cleanup is also much more involved now and honestly, I usually have to take a shower to really clean up.
Well, it's a mess, but I'm very happy that everything still kind of works and is still fun.
I also did not know how much my previous anatomy bothered me until after I had my surgery, where a lot of stress and mental health stuff suddenly got lifted overnight.
…damn, I think I discovered a new fetish >.<
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@xorlou@lgbtqia.space so I guess there is no standard review process as part of the development process itself where you work?
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@runningoff@lgbtqia.space ooh, excellent questions, thank you for the input too.
What makes me want to talk about it?
It feels like a mix of many things.
I have asked this in the past in other circles and I guess answering a question about what hearing "good girl" means to me made me excited to talk about more stuff.
I crave a small amount of social interaction.
Exhibitionism might play a bit into that, something about it tingles feelings near my praise kink, though I'm not yet sure how to place that. I guess I have never really explored what exhibitionism is and what it can mean for people - and me.
I enjoy thinking and talking about lewd things.
There's also a desire to (over)share because it is something I enjoy. Being asked questions would be a way to be able to indulge in that without unfiltered infodumping about everything that comes to my mind.
Connecting with interesting people doesn't feel like the main focus, but I would enjoy that. Oh, and I'm interested where my experiences and interests lie compared to other people - how my personal kinks might be different from what other people see, or expect, in it.
I have this thought that I don't quite feel like I "belong" in lewd or kink-related spaces - because I have kind of been told so in the past and I feel much… softer than the comparative "roughness" I've seen or read (mostly with regards to all aspects of bdsm I guess).
There might be more, but that is what comes to my mind right now, especially thanks to your questions.
Re: biting
I don't like being bitten and I feel it's not a nice thing to do - and I don't like doing things to other people that are not nice - especially inflicting pain. Also, I would be a bad girl if I did that and that's definitely not who I am.
Another aspect is that of "being" a husky, but there are a couple of things to unpack there for context:
I've been in the furry fandom for decades and created a personal representation of myself that is essentially just me, but fluffy, anthropomorphic, husky (and more physically idealised). I am human, but wouldn't mind being husky-me.
So, I also respond to "husky", have a great excuse for some fun vocal tics where appropriate and would wag a tail if I had one.
And dogs aren't supposed to bite. And I'm proud of sticking to that.
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@drakulix@social.dreampi.es the dishwasher is clearly for clean dishes. Dirty dishes go everywhere where there is room for them until you've run out of clean dishes - or are so overwhelmed by the dirty dishes everywhere that you have to, right now, empty, fill and turn it on.