At a doctor's office today they asked for my biological sex in a digital form. They then showed a cis male body and asked me to point to the area I need help with. This does not cover my body and it feels disgusting. I'm not sure how to answer this question in the future because this choice simply does not represent my body and medical staff might not realize that I have breast tissue, estrogen, a vagina ect.. This is why I think we need new language to describe the biological reality of #trans people. "Male" just doesn't cut it for a lot of trans women. Something like "trans female" should be on the list. #transgender #biologicalsex #transfemale #genderdysphoria
Sofie
Visual artist and communication designer from Germany. Trans woman in my late 30s.
#transwomenarewomen #startrek
Profile: black and white selfie of me, a white woman with red-brown wavy hair and piercings.
Header: colorful gouache painting with fluid graphics, bubbles and abstract nipples.
A "Not interested" option in #loops would be nice. There are many accounts on my For You with stuff I don't want to watch but blocking them feels wrong. I don't have any issue with them and I would not mind receiving DMs or comments. I feel like this feature could be interesting for other people as well.
Edit: This feature already exists and it's inside the the share button! ⤴️
In public settings my brain let's everything in, all at once. And since I'm appearently lacking appropriate hardware to filter inputs it feels like I have to fall back on software rendering, linearly weighting and categorizing every input, social settings are exhausting for me. I don't know if this is #adhd or something else.
I put a big bowl of water outside every day and in the morning it’s full of dirt.. so I know somebody is finding it helpful 😊
Wie die Kritik an #jensspahn homophob aufgeladen ist. Ich habe nicht pauschal ein Problem mit Leihmutterschaft. Queere Menschen haben ein Recht auf Hilfe beim Kinderwunsch wie der Rest auch.
Ich habe allerdings ein Problem mit queeren Menschen, die die Rechte genießen, die andere für sie hart erkämpfen mussten, während sie der eigenen Community in den Rücken fallen.
This year’s Trans Day of Visibility gets rescheduled to the next day you’re voting. I had too many people who don’t consider themselves transphobic vote conservative out of disinterest or tradition. These people either have no fucking clue what the consequences for me and my community are or expect me to not mention it. Of course, they’re not even aware of the consequences for their own lives.
If you want to show up for the trans community AND yourself, include us in your calculation next time you’re voting.
Also, if you have trans people in your life, make sure they feel safe and loved during these difficult times. The attacks keep coming, and we need people who see what’s happening.
The "woman face thing" is interesting. (When they try to link trans women to a practice similar to blackface) It's a good example of why leaving gender-nonconforming and non-binary people behind won’t save us. Respectability politics never worked because it was never about justified criticism or "good ones" vs. "the weird ones". They want to get rid of us, and once they’re done with them, you’re next. The only way out is together. And I’m not shaming anyone who needs to blend in to be safe. I know that once discrimination stacks up, assimilation is survival. But we need to make room for all of us. #transrights #queerrights #RespectabilityPolitics
I'm really enjoying Tawny Newsome's and Andrew Ti's new podcast "Starter Trek". Especially with all the hate grifters on #trek tube right now. I love that they give historical context for the episodes. Also #jessygender is the producer and her background knowledge of #startrek is just insane. A very chill, entertaining podcast.
#tawnynewsome #andrewti
Latest escape: Becky Chambers books. Beautiful hopepunk. Started with The "Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet" and I’m now listening to "A Psalm for the Wild-Built". The narration by Emmett Grosland is wonderful. 🫖☕️🌱
Cishet men this week:
Some, even ones I like, go out of their way to avoid recognizing their own privilege.
Some think queer people have absolutely nothing to do with them or the world they inhabit.
For some, the only path to coexistence is our disappearance. Me randomly existing in the same space: an insult.
Can someone please purge 2025 to 2026 from my Holomatrix? thx.
I love this new #Startrek show. The queer representation has come such a long way and I think we're finally leaving tokenism. The gay love triangle is giving me soooo much joy. :philly_pride: #StarfleetAcademy
A open-source social media scheduling app that combines conventional social media and the #fediverse would help a lot with adoption, I think. I imagine many smaller organizations, schools, and universities would love a simple scheduling tool. And if it combines both worlds, it’s a small ask to also toggle on #mastodon, #pixelfed, and #loops. Is there such a tool out there?
Somebody on here running /e/OS on a Samsung S23 by any chance? LineageOS does list it but /e/ does not...but maybe someone tried it anyway? Would love to turn it into something less google.
It's so problematic to use gen AI images for news headlines, including science. The distortion and reality warping needs to be addressed. E.g if there is a new fungus doing new fungus stuff, I need to see a real picture, no matter how bad it is and not some prompt showing "fantasy fungus in an unusual color inside a petri dish". With an illustration or stock footage, I knew how to process that, but with gen AI images, I'm losing track of what's real information and what's a placeholder image. #genai #slop
Fighting #fascism is not enough.
We must also dismantle the powerstructures that allow it to regrow over and over again. This means talking about race, gender, ableism, queerness, and how we treat this planet.
#jessygender talks about this (and a lot more) in her new video essay. 2.40h
This reminds me a lot of #leftist , cishet, white dudes wanting to "focus on fighting fascists" while reheating right-wing talking points about identity politics and culture war narratives.
Does someone who is fluent in EU politics know if the statement "EU declares trans women are women" is implemented in a way that is binding for member states and secure against a far-right majority, or is this just a gesture? After seeing how fragile queer rights were in the US, I need queer rights that have meaningful weight behind them before I celebrate.
I know the books not covers thing, but I’m a very visual person and it really bothers me when a book I want to read has beautiful cover art that was designed with intention and care in one language and the one I want to read is just ugly and dead.
#StarfleetAcademy Episode 7 hit me hard! As someone living with PTSD, this episode made me cry several times. At one point, I just took off my glasses completly because what’s the point? I’m exaggerating a bit, but this is a really good episode made by people who clearly understand the topic. I’m very thankful for this story. Along "It’s Only a Paper Moon" we now have another great PTSD-related episode. #trek #startrek #ptsd
Trans womanhood does not depend on cis womens understanding, acceptance or permission. Trans womanhood is not granted to us, it is innate and ancient. We are biological women. Trans female bodies are not synthetic, they are human. Our bodies do not emulate you, they reveal us.
#ciswomen #transwomenarewomen
One thing I like about #BeckyChambers ' writing is that she lets her characters swear a lot. It makes the softness deliberate. These characters choose kindness.
Happy Easter to those who celebrate. I love you. 💛 🌱 🌞 🌷
Wenn ein Mann aus der Alpha Szene etwas über positive Männlichkeit oder gesunde Männlichkeit lernen möchte, was kann ich ihm an Büchern, Podcasts etc. empfehlen, um ihm ein neues Männlichkeitsbild zu zeigen? Etwas, das die toxischen Muster aufbricht, zu dem er aber trotzdem Zugang findet?
#Männer #Maskulinität #Männlichkeit #Feminismus #Transmänner
Is there a Linux for gen Ai? Something people can switch to if they still need to use it? Not the "open source" handed down ones from big tech...
I'm talking:
- trained ethically by a community
(on many peoples computers)
- on data that was contributed for training
- running locally?
Searching the web I mostly found dubious for profit projects. #genai #ai #floss #foss
Just read that #BobbySchroeder #ponett is working on a new game for fans of #superlesbiananimalrpg Very early stages but still 🥰 Can't wait, #slarpg is one of my fav games.
I think I found a new favorite band through the trans* playlist: #rainbowkittenSurprise Playing on loop: Bones, Superstar, Hell Nah, Freefall, Sixteen
The #starfleetAcademy petition now reached 25,000 signatures! Here is the Link in case you want to show up for some woke af cadets.
https://www.change.org/Save_startrek_sfa
Gave my ThinkPad W500 a sway treatment and now it's fun to use. I love Gnome but it was way to slow, even with disabled animations.