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Mads "Y**i Advocate" Viande
@byttyrs@monads.online
mastodon 4.3.9+glitchcommunist! my name is Mads Viande, and I LOVE terrorists but I HATE the United States of America and its geopolitical allies 💛
I'm 33, but more importantly, I'm grown.
bisexual genderqueer butch trans woman. poet, artist, singer, dancer. she/her, fey/fem/fer/fers/femself
queen/sis/bitch, don't "they" me, don't call me "quing" or "monarch" or "liege"
"mads is the only person on here who, if they started a cult, i would join that cult" — @RussellsBarbershopQuartet@monads.online
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exceptionalizing child sexual abuse, by which I mean exceptionalizing it among other types of child abuse, has largely made things worse for child abuse victims.
the unrelated gay man who groomed me did so by identifying my gender variance/gayness and being the only adult in my life who explicitly said I would be safe revealing to him that I was gay.
as an adult, parents have *openly hid their children's eyes from me* because that same gender variance and gayness — let's be explicit here, my *transfemininity and faggotry* — is 'inappropriate for children'.
so my gender variance has BOTH exposed me to child sexual abuse AND to the stigma of being CONSIDERED a child sexual abuser.
meanwhile, the whole fucking time, MOST CHILD ABUSE — SEXUAL OR OTHERWISE — HAS BEEN COMMITTED BY PARENTS OR OTHER ADULTS RELATED TO THE CHILD
the pedophile-as-stranger and pedophilic gay man stereotypes function to protect and empower child abusers AND endanger trans women and gay men.
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I'm the exact type of victim the Pedophile-as-Stranger idea depicts, right? I was groomed by, specifically, a private tutor. he was gay. it's textbook
but that ended very quickly, specifically because it is VERY EASY to remove an unrelated adult's access to a child, and the consequences for me of telling other people about him were VERY LOW.
meanwhile, my dad's abuse only cooled off when he scared himself by how violent he got with me. it remained a secret to other adults for decades. even without continued verbal or physical abuse, I continued to be revictimized by the 'new normal' created by his abuse for decades.
because his access to me was the most legitimate possible: that of a father to his child. (you might think 'mother,' but I said 'access,' not 'responsibility of care'; when fathers choose to show up to family court and request custody, they overwhelmingly get it.) because the cost to me of revealing his abuse, retaliation or the loss of his livelihood, was so high.
new hat just dropped
I have something seniorphobic to say:
turn off your fucking TV if you're going to make a phone call
it's pretty funny how much anti-literacy is a hallmark of anticommunism
there's like a lesbian pizza party going on at the sports bar
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@jackdaw_ruiz@normal.style now, I assume conceptions happen every day as a matter of course, but I am not happy to consider for the first time that someone might have felt *inspired* to conceivfefe
my life if fatigue at least helped me get to sleep on time: [meme photo of futuristic glass and steel city]
Darth Joqueur
Darth Pungent
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@funkula@goblin.camp this didn't so much make me laugh as it's just one of the coolest things I've ever seen. complete source information in the Tumblr post but the photog is Christian Vaisse. these are cormorant fishers who have trained cormorants to fish for them https://mads-byttyrs-viande.tumblr.com/post/818358511368110080
Darth Twisted
Darth Pussypop
Darth Lactose
I've been gearing up for a long time to be anti-Zionist in the Beit Din for my conversion to Judaism; this involves convincing three Jewish clergy of my good-faith. a very specific way to talk about Zionism
and now that I have successfully converted, I need to kind of reorient my head and stop centering Jewish issues with regards to anti-Zionism lmao
it's a gear-change!
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@jackdaw_ruiz@normal.style you're so right! I really got myself tripping on the v-f boundary, lmao
one of the more frustrating posts I've read recently was one on Tumblr suggesting that sociologically-focused perspectives on omegaverse are "missing the point" of omegaverse, which is weird freak kink shit
THE SOCIOLOGICAL PERSPECTIVES ARE PART OF THE WEIRD FREAK KINK SHIT
there aren't really any fictional characters where I think my relationship with them captures anything terribly insightful about my personality *shuffles Matilda behind my back* *shuffles Eskarina Smith behind my back* *shuffles Tiffany Aching behind my back*
is anybody else excreting a lot of bilious mucus, and it feels bad?
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@cuttlefish@goblin.camp I'm doing my part (monitoring a man with big beautiful brown eyes very closely)
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@jamescheese@monads.online yayyyyaayyyyyaaaaayyyyyyy
I dunno why or how I built up exfoliation to be this huge complicated undertaking but you can literally just take an Emory board to your feet and sand them with progressively finer grit for, total, a few minutes and have smooth, nice-feeling, nice-looking feet
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@Colophonscrawl@monads.online whooo!!!!!
*shooting upright* world where Doodlebob's dialog and the writing on the wall that Daniel interpreted switched places
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@crimson_clouds23@normal.style la di da, da da
O! Rise, spirit, rise! — unnecessary, summoner; even
banished it has never left, even with its master in his
seclusion the homunculus toddles still. Then! Spirit!
Be bound to my will — so the spirit answered to new
mistress, weaker than its master; perhaps her heart
was less foul. Still, the spirit stalked about shaking
its head and the earth its footing, breathing dank
and gnashing at stones. O! Spirit, dead or absent!
You are a shade thinner than glass. Why do I quake?
you, pointing a flashlight at me: what the hell are you doing here? this is private property!
me, trespassing at your house: no, it's personal property. you live here. it'd only be private property if you rented it out
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@PhoebeWallerPalladino@monads.online psychological horror movie about owning Jason stathom cheeter but being unable to get anyone to take it away, so you start trying to make artistic improvements to make it easier to move
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@PhoebeWallerPalladino@monads.online well the thing is, by the end of the movie the protagonist agrees with you
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@ArachnoCommunist@monads.online uh-oh! best of luck with novel leg not work : (