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July 27 2026 #MutualAidThread!

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Okay...

I had a tiny meal and now I'm waiting to see if I'm gonna keep it down.

I took the bed time meds including the one that's been causing extreme acid reflux.

If I squeak by without a problem tonight then I MAY have a plan... It'll just require some experimentation on my part.

June Goal: 95/1100 CAD
I'm disabled & queer, living in poverty. Rent is paid, I need help with bills, groceries, hygiene, medication, clothing, etc.
Donate: https://ko-fi.com/qpthepurplesnep
Wishes: https://throne.com/qp_and_valiant/
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Woke up foggy and with a migraine.

Supposed to have a dentists appointment in a few days but have to cancel cuz my support person (who goes with me) is sick. Appointment cancelled and asked to reschedule for sometime in July.

I'm starting back on mood stabilizers after coming off them as a result of being in a haze of grief due to the death of my 2 elderly cats. Hopefully I feel more like myself.

I'm working on teaching Valiant "middle" to sit between my legs. He gets it if I start it with him cornered in so his only option is middle. One he gets it. I'll start moving out of him being cornered.

I did try it without him cornered in and he pops up next to me instead.

However he's VERY enthusiastic.

June Goal: 30/1100 CAD
This is an emergency! I'm disabled & queer, living in poverty. Rent is paid, I need help with bills, groceries, hygiene, medication, clothing, etc.
Donate: https://ko-fi.com/qpthepurplesnep
Wishes: https://throne.com/qp_and_valiant/
#MutualAidRequest
#MutualAid
#DisabilityCrowdFund
#EmergencyCrowdFund
#ShowUpForWishes
#Poverty
@wrzky@kolektiva.social @posts@wrzky.com
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I feel like a ghost lately. I can't imagine things will improve right now, I don't have hope for the reality of living off of disability benefits improving. I know I don't really "live" when I did work, I worked and would come home unable to care for myself, or my space at all and I have no joy at all.

I am so lost. Isolation is making it so much worse. Everyone is busy with their own lives and I am tired of asking to hang out to be told they aren't available over and over again.

I don't know what to do. I feel like an animal in too small of an enclosure without appropriate care and it's dragging my mental health further and further down the shitter.

My 43rd birthday is coming up in August so I'm putting together an Amazon wishlist and updating Throne so folks can surprise me with real tangible items.

I'm trying to put a mix of things like needed items, items I've wanted to help me improve my health, to items that will bring some joy.

Everything sent is going to be held for my birthday and opened live on stream.

Urg.

Gotta love people ignoring publicly stated boundaries that state exactly what I'll do. I just sighed and questioned why I expend so much energy helping others get more visibility for mutual aid.

I am so exhausted and fried especially when my needs aren't getting anywhere near met.

My friend who I was sure was coming over tomorrow just pointed out that he's coming by Monday as that's what we planned.

*Facepalms*

Go me for being so damn sure plans were on Friday.

However, I'm still taking the Friday break from mutual aid threads especially after I've been unable to sleep at all for 2 nights in a row and threw up due to acid reflux. Clearly I need the break.

Question... For those of you who have been on medication for ANYTHING and who have experienced side effects I have two questions that are entirely subjective, based purely on your experience and there are absolutely no wrong answers.

1) Which side effect that you experienced was the worst?

2) Which side effect that you experienced was the most surprising/unexpected?

Online Movie Night on July 29 at 6PM Eastern Time!

Movie: To Wong Foo

Discord Server: https://discord.gg/rD4EeD62J5

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I'm glad that my city doesn't celebrate pride until the end of August because I have barely left the apartment for all of June and I'll be seeing my first human on Monday.

Check on your disabled friends.

I'm feeling very -done- with everything right now.

I am reminding myself that I don't want to give the province's premier a win, one less disabled person on disability benefits because they don't exist anymore.

I am also feeling awful because of medication side effects, and a migraine (and I'm out of meds for that).

Just one of those days.

My 43rd birthday is in August. I'm planning on a livestream on August 22 at 2PM Eastern time. Livestream will be at https://twitch.tv/quyetpawz

I'm thinking JackBox Games and unboxing any gifts I've received.

Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/ls/1O9S2OXGN9GM4

Throne Wish list: https://throne.com/qp_and_valiant

#birthday

People have started to send birthday presents! 3 packages have arrived so far.

My 43rd birthday is in August. I'm planning on a livestream on August 22 at 2PM Eastern time.

I'm thinking JackBox Games and unboxing any gifts I've received.

Amazon Wishlist: https://www.amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/ls/1O9S2OXGN9GM4

Throne Wish list: https://throne.com/qp_and_valiant

#birthday

July Goal: 305/950 CAD
I'm disabled & queer, living in poverty. Rent is paid, I need help with bills, groceries, hygiene, medication, clothing, etc.
Donate: https://ko-fi.com/qpthepurplesnep
Wishes: https://throne.com/qp_and_valiant/
#MutualAidRequest
#MutualAid
#DisabilityCrowdFund
#EmergencyCrowdFund
#ShowUpForWishes
#Poverty
#MutualAidSpace
@mutualaid@fedigroups.social