Liberal Jew, Ashkenazi, only from my mothers side, but it's the part of my family, I know best. Used to difficult circumstances.
German is my native language, but I toot both in English and German.
Why I'm not on Facebook, whilst everyone else seems to be, and prefer the Fediverse:
- I'm annoyed by the amount of advertising, which don't exist
- In the Fedi the Moderation is dar superior to Facebook
- I find my people in the Fedi, but not on Facebook (Facebook is somehow dead in my nieche.)
- I feel much safer to speak in the Fedi than on Facebook. There is some toxic culture at facebook
- The Fedi has no algorithm, which amplifies only, what brings engagement, which are mostly toxic things
- Instead at the Fedi is much more genuine engagement even for positive and more rational things.
- The Fedi is open to connect to the whole World wide web by open standards, no walled garden. A Link to something outside the Fedi isn't a crime unlike Facebook.
- In the Fedi no interesting post suddenly disappear just because you got disturbed by something. It is a huge annoyance with Facebook.
- If you post something in the Fedi and ask something, you get serious
answers, not this superficial nonsense focused on someones public image.
- Meta makes it too easy for scammers and betrayers to get away with it, without true help from their support, whilst in the Fedi the community stops scammers quite quickly. In the Fedi you can trust an account much more to be authentic than on Facebook, without the same privacy infringements Facebook imposes.
So why I prefer the Fedi over Facebook? I'm fed up with the dark Patterns and the toxic culture Facebook supports, whilst not finding something and someone of Interest and looked for a place of genuine connection without all these unnerving things. You depend on the benevolence of Meta, Facebooks Parent company. The Fedi is not owned by a single company. I have much more agency, a real community, where I feel welcome, more like a real network.
So I ask you back: Why are you still on Facebook? Social Pressure? Some Organizations and companys, who made it their only means of public relations? Is it @_elena@mastodon.social