NewsGoth Condensed (if you know you know)
Retired CISSP. Reformed former CISO. Also an architect, strategist, and risk manager. Radio nut and font fanatic.
I don't do LinkedIn or most other social media. I am on Bluesky, same handle. I might mention my website occasionally.
My cousin died about a week ago. Graham was 60. We weren't close, but we were on friendly terms. He was a high school janitor for almost 35 years, retiring earlier this year.
I found out too late to get to Missouri for the funeral. My other relatives filled me in on what happened.
The funeral was at one of the largest churches in his city of 6,000 people. The local school district dismissed classes early so students and staff could attend.
They filled the church.
There was story after story of how Graham had made their day with a smile and a kind word, or helped them out with a difficult problem, or was just the guy they could always rely on.
Graham was actually a pretty reclusive person. Yet everyone in the city seemed to know him.
He made an impact on a lot of lives, both tangibly and intangibly.
I've reflected on all this and realized that, even with my specialized career in cybersecurity covering more than 30 years, I never made that kind of impact and never will.
People in professional contexts often seem to be posturing and positioning themselves for advancement, self-promoting and patting their friends on the back. (LinkedIn, I'm looking at you.) Maybe they spend their time exchanging private messages in public to make themselves seem part of an exclusive club. (Infosec Twitter/X, I'm looking at you.) But they're not making the kind of impact Graham made. And they never will.
Graham wouldn't have known. He didn't have a computer. The last letter I got from him was written on a typewriter. He had a difficult life in a lot of ways but he never took it out on others. I just don't possess that kind of grace, TBH.
I don't want to preach here. So I'll just keep in mind that my advanced degrees and mostly-successful career had their value - but a life spent supporting others has value as well. I'm no better than anybody else, and neither are you.
Public service announcement: if you're a male in your 60s and above, talk to your physician about getting a bone density screening. While routine for women, they're not routine for men. I had a bone density screening literally by accident: after fracturing four ribs in a biking crash. The test indicated significant bone loss, i.e. osteoporosis. There are medications available to help. My physician told me that she believes older men should be screened for bone loss, but it's not routine today.
DOTI's (Denver Department of Transporation and Infrastructure) commitment to Vision Zero seems half-hearted at best. Examples: Nothing done to address the speedway that is Monaco between 6th and Colfax. Using RRSPs instead of HAWKs or full-fledged bike signals for the Krameria-Kearney bikeway. Not updating the ancient traffic light at 8th & Krameria. Et cetera.
https://denverite.com/2026/03/05/denver-speed-cameras-vision-zero-record-traffic-deaths/
I'm noticing more and more small business closures: four in the past week alone. Two restaurants, a bakery, and a pharmacy. Another bakery stopped in January.
Worth reading - cybersecurity gets deprioritized because Trump can't stop pouting about the 2020 elections (among other things). https://cyberscoop.com/cisa-personnel-cuts-trump-second-term-analysis/
RE: @newsguyusa@flipboard.social
One of the interesting things about the Epstein files is how they're ensnaring people whose reputations have been grossly overrated for a long time.
This is stunning. For decades, the station was WOW, a mainstay of Omaha radio. Big signal, too: 5,000 watts at 590, nondirectional day *and* night. Not even sports talk could save it, it appears. How the mighty AM stations are falling.
https://radioinsight.com/headlines/340967/590-kxsp-omaha-signs-off/
When I used to live in central Missouri, I could pick it up. In the daytime. At that distance, it wasn't terribly strong, but it was always there (especially on a car radio). #radio
RE: @zackwhittaker@mastodon.social
"But vendor due diligence takes time and we have a project deadline!"
If I had a thousand dollars for every time I heard that excuse....
