It's me! My hope is to make this account my primary and @natoleander@mastodon.social my backup.
For those who don't know me, I'm 37 and I live in the Cascadia region of Turtle Island, on Duwamish land in Seattle, WA. I'm a solo parent of a toddler who just turned 2 years old, and have been in court for over a year since leaving my child's abusive father. I will generally share about my experiences as a DV survivor with content warnings, but since this is an intro, I'm keeping it open and not going into any specifics.
My child & I have received enormous support from our local community as well as from the fediverse. I've spent over $10k on legal representation, and will be continuing to fundraise in the coming months. We are currently physically safe, which is such a relief after the year we've had.
I'm genderfluid and queer, and I use they/them pronouns. I've trained as a playwright, and I dabble in arts of many forms; I'm in a choir, and I got seriously into partner dancing (Brazilian Zouk!) before my pregnancy. I'm a language nerd who competed in the National Spelling Bee and is currently learning Spanish & ASL to raise my child trilingually. I have a newsletter called Impure Leftist that supports activists to be more effective and less burned out. I'm also COVID-aware and still take pandemic precautions.
I'd love to connect with other creatives, writers, parents, queerdos, and anyone else who's looking for kind & thoughtful community in a world steadily undergoing multiple forms of collapse.
Please be aware that following me or interacting with my posts may subject you to online harassment, so do what's best for you.
I'm not able to port my followers from my previous account yet (@nat@kind.social), so boosts are muy appreciated.
Gracias!!
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Nat Oleander
@nat@lgbtqia.space
mastodon 4.7.2Primary account. Backup = @natoleander@mastodon.social
Writer, teacher, & solo parent, occupying Duwamish land on the Salish sea. Queer, genderfluid anarchist with complex PTSD & fibromyalgia. I write about surviving DV, including coercive control, as a child & as an adult. Relationships, power, hierarchy, intersectionality, mental and emotional wellness, and my very weird childhood as a homeschooled Quiverfull kid who escaped the cult at 18.
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@nat@kind.social
@nat@partyon.xyz
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Joined September 04, 2026
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A friend of mine is a survivor of long-term stalking. It's exhausting, terrifying, and now it's threatening their housing—they're facing eviction next week, along with their child. If you're able to help, please do! Boosts are extremely appreciated ❤️🔥
https://chuffed.org/project/stalked-for-decade
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