Maaike

Ableist BS I had to unlearn: the idea that premade food is necessarily worse than self cooked food.
Yes there's a lot of premade food that's not very healthy. But there exists premade food that is healthy and is totally fine to eat.

(Of course there are many reasons to cook your own, such as money, dietary/health reasons, wanting something different - but what I'm trying to say is that it's not a moral failing if you have other priorities).

(Yes this is kind of a subtoot).

TIL that osmium is the densest material there is.

Anyway, entirely unrelated, I went out tonight to the local trans cafe and it was nice. I met a new person there that I've been cuddling with 😊

I have a feeling I'm never going to be able to be monogamous.

Queer group chat that somehow got into a whole fight over the exact meaning of "dyke" and who can use the term, and meanwhile I'm both 🍿 and 😭 trying not to get involved 😅

Does anyone have thoughts on Immich? They're giving off nazi bar vibes, being sponsored by FUTO.
See: https://drewdevault.com/weird-guys/#ewolf

I tried it before, it was nice, but this kind of funding feels off.

Also, they recently removed their code of conduct which is not a great sign:
https://github.com/immich-app/immich/issues/31502
EDIT: they didn't remove the CoC, they simply moved it. (The commit message could have been a lot clearer though).

What's this?? I sleep better with a partner than alone?? (Or at least not worse than when I'm alone). This used to be very much the other way around.

Just remembered this album I used to listen to a lot. That cover is such a vibe!
(Also, the music itself is nice I guess)

https://open.spotify.com/album/3lDOcJSqTbqYb0Q9kn3GqH

I love the idea of a body interwoven with machinery.