Untangling Ourselves Podcast
A #podcast sharing stories about non-coercive change: how joy, curiosity, community, and a sense of purpose lead to untangling how we live our lives and who we think we are.
Hosted by Kaitlin @seedlingsong@social.coop
I'm a white cis woman, #unschooling parent, community organizer, social media admin, #RecoveringAcademic, and #UU.
Covering topics such as disability, adultism, high control religion, feminism, neurodivergence, CPTSD, free Palestine, trans rights, the arts, local organizing.
Here's a preview of the new episode publishing this week with Anita Frank of Brave Dog Training Online. This link includes even more cute dog pictures!
https://www.patreon.com/UntanglingOurselvesPodcast/posts/dogs-162064833
The episode is a deep dive into trauma-informed dog training, and should be ready soon.
And here's Anita's channel:
@BraveDogTrainingOnline@www.youtube.com
Anita and I connected as people who grew up experiencing force as the only way to get what you want. In both of our childhoods, boundaries were not respected. Somehow, we both knew intuitively that this was wrong. But how do you practice teaching, boundaries, and relationships differently? Especially with safety at stake?
We ended up talking a lot about social pressures to conform, and how the fear, guilt, and judgement of ourselves and our dogs can get in the way of building the trusting relationship needed for safety, connection, and long-term sustainable training. Trauma-informed dog training may sound like it’s just for rescues, but it’s for every dog and echoes into other relationships.
"I as a disabled person, deserve to live a life that I have chosen. I deserve to live a life that feels safe, that feels comfortable, that's joyful, that has people in it that I want to have in it, doesn't have people in it that I don't want to have in it. And that I am guaranteed a future where I get to exist and other disabled people get to exist, and that we're all collectively moving towards that. Like, that's really the value." --Rayne Depukat
https://untanglingourselves.com/episode/2c90eb7f/i-ll-take-the-demerit-with-rayne-depukat
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