@sam@solent.social Shit, that sucks. I'm really sorry things didn't work out for you.
Please try not to take breakup character judgements to heart. Sometimes they're true, sometimes it's mismatched expectations and sometimes they just aren't at all. No way to tell in the moment. It's great to work towards the person you want to be, but don't do it for someone who doesn't want to be with you.
Sorry I didn't spot this sooner (still need to get on here properly). Hope a few days relaxing have helped.
sharkey 2025.4.6