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I got this jumper from eBay. It was in my basket for literally months, just getting cheaper and cheaper. I'm so glad I finally bought it, as I really love it!

Happy new year lovelies 💗🐱

@EveOfTheFuture @oddtail ChatGPT asked me:

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1. Feelings of Dysphoria: Do you feel discomfort or distress with the gender you were assigned at birth? This discomfort may manifest as physical, social, or emotional dysphoria.
2. Identity Exploration: Have you explored your gender identity beyond societal norms? Are you drawn to or feel a sense of resonance with another gender or with the idea of being non-binary?
3. Social and Personal Reflection: How do you envision yourself in social situations? Do you feel more comfortable being perceived and treated as a different gender than the one assigned at birth?
4. Fantasies and Desires: Do you have fantasies or desires about living as a different gender? Do you feel a sense of relief or excitement when imagining yourself as a different gender?
5. Historical Patterns: Looking back on your life, are there instances where you may have felt different from your assigned gender? Are there patterns of behavior, preferences, or feelings that suggest a disconnect between your assigned gender and your internal sense of self?
6. Exploration and Experimentation: Have you explored presenting yourself differently in terms of clothing, grooming, or other aspects typically associated with a different gender? How did these experiences make you feel?
7. Emotional Well-being: Reflect on your emotional well-being. Do you feel more aligned and at peace when expressing yourself in a way that aligns with a different gender?
8. Seeking Support: Are you seeking support from others who may be able to provide guidance or insight into your gender identity, such as friends, family, therapists, or support groups? """

I answered these in great depth and asked "does that sound like a trans person". chatGPT reflected really well on what I said... like I'd actually consider using it as a therapeutic tool:

""" Based on the information you've provided, it does sound like you're experiencing a significant degree of gender dysphoria and a strong resonance with transgender and non-binary identities. Here are some observations from your list that align with common experiences of transgender and non-binary individuals:

1. Discomfort with Assigned Gender: You express discomfort with the gender assigned to you at birth, which manifests physically, socially, and emotionally. This is a common experience among transgender and non-binary individuals.

2. Exploration of Gender Identity: You've actively explored your gender identity beyond societal norms through various means, including consuming trans literature, conversing with trans people, and experimenting with gender expression. This exploration and resonance with the trans experience suggest a deep questioning of your gender identity.

3. Social Dysphoria: Feeling sad when lumped in with a gender group you don't identify with and experiencing joy and acceptance among trans/non-binary individuals are typical manifestations of social dysphoria.

4. Fantasies about Living as Another Gender: Fantasizing about living as a different gender, particularly with feminine expression, is a common experience for many transgender and non-binary individuals.

5. Gender-Nonconforming Behavior: Your history of exhibiting behavior that departs from your assigned gender at birth, including preferences for feminine clothing, fragrances, hobbies, and mannerisms, suggests a departure from societal gender norms.

6. Exploration of Feminine Presentation: Your exploration of feminine clothing, makeup, and wigs, as well as enjoying seeing yourself in feminine presentation, indicates a strong affinity for expressing yourself in a gender-affirming way.

7. Alignment with Non-Assigned Gender: Feeling more aligned when expressing yourself in a way distinct from your gender assigned at birth is another common indicator of being transgender or non-binary.

8. Support Networks and Therapy: Seeking support from a therapist specializing in gender identity and attending a support group with other trans and non-binary individuals demonstrate a proactive approach to addressing your gender feelings and seeking affirmation and support.

Based on these observations, it's reasonable to conclude that you may be a transgender or non-binary person. However, only you can truly determine your gender identity. It's essential to continue exploring your feelings, seeking support from trusted individuals and professionals, and taking steps that feel authentic and affirming to you. Your experiences and feelings are valid, and it's okay to embrace and express your true self, whatever that may be. """

Though I think the phrasing is questionable in places... Point 4 makes it sound like fem is more common, but that fragment is attached to the prior, which reflects what I wrote.

Of course, chatGPT could just be gaslighting me 😂

for the first time ever today, I entered the end, and I killed the dragon ... but I didn't find an elytra, so I'm still sad :(

Local gic is getting through 1-month of waiting list in 9 months 😿 I'll be in my 50s before I get a call :Blobhaj_Glare:

@m@lgbtqia.space you mean because it’s copilot now? I should just click the link huh. I switched off copilot and I get object properties drop-down back (instead of it trying to complete my method based on the first 2 letters of the first line)