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@Richboy50@woof.group My piercer told me the septum fully heals within 3 months... meaning the initial piercing. Gauging up will heal faster than that, but it meant I set a calendar reminder for every 3 months and gauged up each time until I reached my goal. If 6 months is more comfy for you, stick with that, but you can definitely be more aggressive if you want to be.

@robdaemon Sounds like you made the wise choice. If you're anything like me, for the heavy cruise/fuck focus over all else I need to be in a good mental space and have plenty of spoons... or what I've learned works for me, I just bring my own playmates so if the general feel isn't working, we have each other to fall back on and create our own energy.

@robdaemon Which clothing optional resort it was hosted at would have a lot to do with the energy you could expect... Vista Grande vs CCBC would be very different experiences with the former being relaxed enough it might feel comfortable. CCBC is an outdoor bathhouse, which can be fun but tends to be a lot less social.