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@morrigan@social.xenofem.me @cyb3rm0shp1t@social.xenofem.me @winterklaus@social.xenofem.me the ubiquity of tattoos does sorta get to me sometimes since i dont have any tattoos or piercings and that gives me a bit of identity fomo as i approach 30. i just think i dont have a very cosmetic relationship to my body outside of thinking 'yeah i need to style my hair up a bit better and get laser for my face'. as much as i speak from a stance of authority i think in many ways im just very unplugged from all of this. i walk around the house in my boxers and will have full serious thoughtful discussions because it doesnt matter to me at all.

@winterklaus@social.xenofem.me @cyb3rm0shp1t@social.xenofem.me i mean you can basically go anywhere you want in your pajamas now. people just dont care. the world got a lot more arbitrary about these things. if a politician wanted to, they could do speechs while wearing their pajamas and nobody would care. its all very *waves my hand in a circle*...you know.

@hjh@social.xenofem.me @snacks@netzsphaere.xyz its not bait its just real yuri

Kindergarten nyx land be like ‘Bwoo! I scaad ya didnt i? Hehee that is because i hijacked the pwimal part of your bwain. Oldest twick in the book, scaaing someone. Dey dont know im da scawwiest ghost on da bwock :xf_nyx_yes:

be kinder to yourself. its not a 'trauma dump' its a 'lore dump'.

@risperdoll@social.xenofem.me youre not allowed to be funnier than me this is haram

If you invoke castle doctrine on every little matter in your life you actually cant be fucking suprised when people treat you like the king. Reverence and fear and hardly ever looking at you. This is fucking basic fundamental machevilli stuff. Its fine to act that style of tough if you want (even though it’s fundamentally reactionary). You cant then whine and whimper when the halls are empty cause you scared everyone off and dont have any fucking friends.

This is the fundamental contradiction of the crybully they hit you with all this snideness and all this terror and attitude and then try to step back and claim community and harmony. You are acting like royalty you will be treated like royalty. Fucking royal up or fucking leave us be. You cant have both.

What am I apologizing for? Being awesome? Leave me be

Redditors are actually some of the most insanely myopic and cucked people of all time holy shit

@hayley oops! Your drip is too good! Can you wear this dirty disgusting rag for me instead

I told the black crew at work when I was asked how I would react to a guy staring at me through a window that I'd do the AK peering Malcom X response. "You got me at my most adversarial so now the gloves are off'. I had to specify I wasnt trying to be edgy at first but they really liked that one.

walking into my 30s with this energy and if you cant match it dont fucking even bother talking to me

‘What? Are you armenian or something’ no but, have you seen who their Cabinet Minister is? I dont think armenians are Armenian either rn

Tick tock bitch its time o’clock and your minute is up

We got weights in the fish!

gender related hellthreads are so funny

i think the AFAB and AMAB distinction should be melted for something like 'raised through girlhood' vs 'raised as a child soldier' or something like that.

@fiore@brain.worm.pink @paula8@netzsphaere.xyz @trans_caracal@social.translunar.academy i want it to be on the record that my gigachad reaction is because of fiores clapback and NOT as an endorsement of prejudice and hate #hateiscringe

@monkey@brain.worm.pink @fiore@brain.worm.pink @lizzie@brain.worm.pink we arent supposed to be saying foid anymore its bad optics

@hjh@social.xenofem.me no, I actually kind of find a lot of the people here actively tesious and self serving. Hatemobs usually feed into that to the point of no return and I consider leaving. Most people when knocking others out of social orbit start snowballing into anti-disability statements until it gets out of control. It also feeds way too much moral purity. Villany usually just halts everything and makes it tedious. Here I’ll probably get some likes for saying this, even potentially a truthnuke but im not like, content with having to play reassurance medic. The response to this specific comment shows how heterogeneous trans people are in terms of responsiveness in that regard and so mobbings have an effect at splintering and alienating us just as much as it does drawing us together (usually effective mobbings are soearheaded by petty exs or men for a reason in this regard). Just chill out. Youre valuable enough you dont have to go on a self defacement spiral. Itemize your failures into concrete reflections or realize youre stewing in a mirage built by loneliness.