After a long time considering it, I finally got Audiobookshelf installed, and it’s working very nicely.
So far no major annoyances, and it has not yet prompted me to enable useless AI features.
Yesterday I also got one of my kids set up with an explicit subset of my audiobooks which was easy to do (then he can’t see how many lesbian romance books I bought recently… :-) ).
#audiobookshelf