Elisheva Meira ✡︎ 🌈

I've probably left Fedi, definitely short term, possibly permanent. It's too lonely and depressing and shouting into the void and how difficult it is to be understood hurts worse here because it's supposed to be friends.
Was surprised to learn a friend had such a similar experience here. "Silenced myself on one thing after another until there was nothing left I could say."
So maybe I took too much of the blame on myself for this. I don't know, just that trying to negotiate Fedi is exhausting.

Twitter messsed up my head in certain ways, which I've mostly recovered from. My experience in Fedi has broken me in far deeper and more personal ways. I can't come back anytime soon, if ever.

On the off chance anyone here wants to stay in touch, there are some options the 2nd post below. I'll look back in at some point to see if there are DMs. It's up to you to reach out though.

Wishing you all well.

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@ronsboy67@mas.to I add to Comments if it's important info and I can't be arsed to do the dance with the mods or it pertains to Synopsis (which is impossible to get changed once it's up even when the source is something like an official Press Release). At least it's on the page then and maybe someone else will appreciate knowing.

If you ever feel like venting, there's a wee thread in Suggestions :D
https://mydramalist.com/discussions/suggestions/134508-add-a-page-in-the-profil-to-keep-track-on-the-edits-submitted

@ronsboy67@mas.to Some of their pages for Thai movies are so bad they're misleading. Like one they have tagged solely as "horror" and suspense when it's a not scary comedy about grief. Or missing actors whose names are well enough known I don't need to search for them.
So I persevere. Might be gaining some credibility, it's not like there are many adding to Thai pages that aren't BL. They make it so much harder than it needs to be.

@ronsboy67@mas.to Often the only thing trickier than researching an omitted cast member is getting MDL mods to accept your submission of the information to their site.

Well done for finding her 😊

your Jewish friends are not ok

@cobie@connectified.com If you think 17 years ago means old... you're still young 😉

@tendstofortytwo@social.treehouse.systems It's fun to learn more about these things. I'm glad I saw your question 😊

@tendstofortytwo@social.treehouse.systems This seems pretty thorough. Apparently it's never been standardised.

https://www.thesaurus.com/e/grammar/whats-the-rule-for-doing-a-possessive-after-the-word-s/

(I would say Chris's but probably write Chris', change my mind a few times, look it up, consider a way to rewrite to avoid the problem and then forget to finish the post.)

@ronsboy67@mas.to Maybe you could do something about the clouds over here? They'll be lighter than a star. 😊

@cobie@connectified.com oh i see, faux sepia effect. very clever 😉

@wyantyan@miraiverse.xyz ORM!