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@spacefinner "hushed as if he's talking about something sacred." Wow, I very much relate to that. I was like that when talking about dragons/reptiles with people until very recently (and still a little bit). Hesitant, a little embarrassed, dealing with shame. Excited by the topic but not sure how to express it, and not always comfortable talking about dragons/reptiles with other people. And also not really understanding the desire I had made it all more awkward and embarrassing.

@melvian The 10th dragon recommends more dragon!

@RainDragon@furry.engineer Happy birthday! :dragnyell:

@melvian@dragonchat.org :dragnyell:

@dailydragon@scalie.zone Happy hatchday!

@melvian And there's nothing wrong with that! Regardless of environment of what we grow up with, we search for what interests us, and what we're called to do!

@LumiaP2L@meow.social It's the truth!

@GoodNewsGreyShoes Yeah, I lived in a state of depression for a large chunk of my life, and shame can be a vicious cycle. And yeah, I've seen a lot of, shall we say, bad behavior from people in the church, despite none of us being without sin, and none of us deserving God. And that includes from myself. My inability to love myself was eclipsing my view of God, and despite being taught and shown that He *loves* me, I somehow didn't get it, and thought He just *tolerated* me, because I hated myself. And yes! One of the big things I've learned in the past few years is that God *understands*! I struggled to understand my dragonic feelings, but God understood from the beginning and was waiting for me to take these feelings to Him! He wanted to lead me and show me how to understand them, and He has shown me how dragonic He is! God knows what it's like to have a human body and yet be more than just human, because He knows all things, and because He lived an authentic human life while still being divine! He gets it! I wish I had taken my thoughts to God sooner, because I could have saved myself years of hurt. I also want to say, since it sounds like you've been hurt by institutionalized religion, that I'm sorry. It's messed up, the things that happen. None of us are without sin, and all of us have failed and done wrong. None of us deserve God, but God wants us *all*. That's what it's about. On behalf of any Christians who have not shown you the love they received, I apologize. I myself have laughed and ridiculed along with others, and we all should have known better. I'm sorry. Despite being raised in a Christian home and calling myself a Christian for most of my life, it's only been a few years since I really had a relationship with God, and that has made all the difference. :dragnyell: I don't deserve it, but He loves me and wants me, and that's what it's all about! :dragnyell:

@GoodNewsGreyShoes Yeah, shame is a tricky thing, and people sometimes use it to mean different things. It's usually attached to guilt, but not always, and guilt is important because if something is wrong, well, it's wrong. There's guilt there. Shame as in contrition over wrong actions is good. Lingering shame can be very unhealthy. I've definitely done a lot of wrong things, and I struggled to understand myself and my dragon-ness for so many years because I was doing wrong things. I had shame, and I wasn't able to forgive myself and I wasn't able to believe that God had forgiven me for what I had done. It's definitely a complex subject, and a kinda strange one to think about.

@volpeon Especially since they can slough off skin as a defense mechanism. I'd be so concerned about touching at all. My well-being is secondary; I wouldn't want that to happen. 🦎

@dailydragon Aww, poor girl

@randomvangloboii@dragonchat.org :dragnwinghug: I'm sorry to hear this has been such a (negatively-viewed) viral topic there. I've seen those sentiments pop up here and there on the internet, but even on most of the internet it seems like therians/otherkin are relatively unknown. In "real world" media, I've only seen a couple mentions in total, but I have been suspecting that this would get worse. I think it is a case of "have an easy target for people to ridicule so they're distracted with that target" a lot of the time. I hope this will just be a passing fad, and that maybe even humans will learn to drop stereotypes of therians/otherkin, and see that most are not doing those stereotypes. I also have definitely noticed that witnessing hurtful or hateful behavior from humans does make me long to be fully dragon even more. I've always felt safer with dragons, and I want to be able to provide that safety for other dragons. :dragnwinghug: