Alfie Kohn
author and lecturer on topics in #education, #parenting, and human #behavior....
(Personal messages more likely to be read if left on http://alfiekohn.org)
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Drinking salt water when you're thirsty just makes you thirstier.
Competing to feel better about yourself ultimately makes you feel worse about yourself (even if you win).
And guess what new research finds about the effect of interacting with chatbots when you're lonely?
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/09567976261427747
"Thus the injustice committed by the wealthy, though great, was hard to recognize; and what happened was in fact a general upheaval of people being transferred and settling down on land which had belonged to others."
- Appian, the Roman historian, writing ca. 2,000 years ago
"Men have become the tools of their tools."
-Thoreau, 1854
"After just ∼10 minutes of AI-assisted problem-solving, people who lost access to the AI performed worse and gave up more frequently than those who never used it."
- research finding, 2026
https://arxiv.org/pdf/2604.04721
Nice piece that draws an analogy between relying on a GPS (vs. developing a sense of direction) to teachers who offer direct instruction of math procedures (vs. helping kids to develop math sense): https://www.middleweb.com/53328/are-you-gpsing-your-students-in-math-class/
Some ask: Can't we just teach kids principles AND procedures? This 1991 study found that the destructive effects of step-by-step direct instruction aren't offset by adding richer content: https://perryresearchgroupatillinois.weebly.com/uploads/4/1/6/7/41674785/perry_1991_cognitive_development.pdf. And this study 25 yrs later confirms it: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/306030326_Improving_conceptual_and_procedural_knowledge_The_impact_of_instructional_content_within_a_mathematics_lesson
"Hezbollah does not resist Israel simply because it is a Shiite organization supported by Iran; it resists Israel primarily because Israel has repeatedly invaded, scorched and occupied Lebanese land, and because Israel uprooted and terrorized its community." Worth a read: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/04/23/opinion/israel-exploits-lebanon-sectarian-divides.html?unlocked_article_code=1.dlA.krNC.3JLNP0R2gx_I&smid=url-share
Did someone say "equal justice under the law"?
I'm making a point of not flying anywhere today. I worry that if my plane were hit or lost power, air traffic control would respond to the pilot's "Mayday! Mayday!" with "Sure is, buddy! Have a good one!"
"Hormuz," it turns out, is Persian for "Schrödinger"
Andrew Hacker (1929-2026) pointed out that making high schoolers take college-prep classes, especially advanced math (for no good reason), just creates "lifelong tracking" because those who can't hack these classes may be denied a diploma. (I highly recommend his book The Math Myth: https://is.gd/Hj5IIt.)
"I have measured out my life with coffee spoons"
-T.S. Eliot
"Time is tapping on my forehead
Hanging from my mirror
Rattling the teacups"
-Paul Simon
"Every day a little death
In the parlor, in the bed
In the curtains, in the silver
In the buttons, in the bread"
-Stephen Sondheim
Saying “I love kids!” is like saying “I like people . . . for a little while.”
-- Demetri Martin
It's not just the use of stolen data, the environmental devastation, the slop producing unreliable answers, and so on. AI - LLMs - and the companies betting our future on it - are all fully committed to supporting the war machine (i.e., helping the Pentagon to kill more efficiently): https://www.nytimes.com/2026/05/01/us/politics/pentagon-ai-companies-deals.html?unlocked_article_code=1.fVA.z_7k.jcPZLV596YVU&smid=url-share
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A substantial research literature finds that people driven by extrinsic goals - thirsting for fame, recognition, wealth, or beauty - are often trying to compensate for feelings of emptiness and insecurity. Yet their quest leaves them even more unhappy than before. (For more, see https://www.alfiekohn.org/blogs/fame/; https://selfdeterminationtheory.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/1996_KasserRyan_AmericanDream.pdf.)
RFK,Jr.'s efforts to undermine not just public health but science dovetails with Vought et al.'s Christian nationalism - a "coordinated, full-throated attack on secular democratic institutions that protect everyone equally": https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/ng-interactive/2026/may/03/christofascism-rfk-jr-health
Those "dragging America’s public health system toward a new dark age...are morally bankrupt" and indifferent to the effect on "real people’s well-being. Christian nationalist language gives calculated government neglect the sheen of providence."
When we fail to formulate a meaningful, positive definition of mental health, the (tacit) goal of therapy we're left with is unsatisfying.
When we fail to reflect on the purposes of education, the same is true of the (tacit) goal of schooling. New podcast episode: "Beneath the What and the How Is the Why."
Listen here: https://www.alfiekohn.org/podcasts/
"Beneath the Why and the How Is the Why" - the new episode of Kohn's Zone - offers a series of questions for probing and refining our views on the goals of schooling. When we ignore this topic, we end up by default with crude credentialism: https://www.alfiekohn.org/podcasts/
OK, sure, but with noncollege, rural, Evangelical, sociopathic white men, I'll bet he's doing great.





