They need to be effeminate. Sure, they like getting muddy and shit, but they still like to wear dresses and be girly to some degree. They also need the familiar softness of a woman.
That up there isn't a tomboy.
Asked one of the girls that works at the bar close by my job.
I started by taking flowers to one of them. She seemed unreceptive, so I tried someone else that was more open. She's really sweet.
Gave her my number. Hopefully she texts me and lets me know. I mean, if not, then it's fine.
I've taken more to approaching people than looking online anymore.