My C's presentation hatched someone. 🥹
Doc Impossible
PhD #trans girl! She/Her, thing explainer and, apparently, oologist. Gender questioning folks are very welcome to message me! ⚢ Married. Opinions mine.
Don't crack eggs. Build nests.
Had a bit of a freak-out yesterday evening about the boobs I'm getting, and whether it's done kind of terrible mistake. I love teaching, and I really don't want to get pushed out, and my stupid brain was shouting that having really big boobs would make my students completely disrespect me.
Anyway, my friends fought to help me, mostly unsuccessfully, until one, who has bigger boobs than I'll ever get, said:
"But I do know that the whole point of all of this is to be unapologetically you and if you don’t do that, then… that’s kind of a bummer."
And just the simple banality of that, the no-stakes, "that'd kinda suck" statement is what it took for me to feel better about it all.
Life's weird. 46 days till I have mega-boobies.
@e_er1n@hackers.town @emma@toot.lgbt @faithisleaping@tech.lgbt That's why we shouldn't crack eggs. When you crack an egg by force, there is only death.
So, don't crack eggs. Build nests.
@Reborn_Cat_Mom@chaosfem.tw I'm trying, anyway. And if they let me go because of my cup size, they were never worth working for in the first place.
@JoscelynTransient@chaosfem.tw Well, how much work about the trans experience have you put out there?