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Surgeons and engineers make bank last I checked, so that’s a bit of a funny example. Markets do reward in-demand practical skills.
What societies (in general) really reward is dumb luck and networking, though.
Formerly u/CanadaPlus101 on Reddit.
Sure, they're okay. Honestly we might be a bit too strict about avoiding them, at this point.
Where it becomes a problem is if you'd like to join whatever group, but the only one available is not open to you. Which happened a lot historically, but is rarer now.
I think their claim is nonsense, grossly exaggerated at best.
Can confirm, in my experience the problem with mancaves is that you pretty quickly want to let women in. There's no tradeoff, we can not talk about our feelings and make a mess in a mixed gender crowd, too.