@jilleduffy@mastodon.social I used to have a partner with MASSIVE breasts. a) After a while, the novelty wears off b) She always had issues with bra selection and back pain. She was at her happiest after breast reduction surgery. The positive difference #breastreduction made to her wellbeing is hard to understate. N.B. I also had partners that went the other way, and while mentally they were happier too, the physical (literal) burden of large breasts is not to shirk at.